| LakeCountyGal The Seahorse:
Sarcastic geek looking for my evil twin |
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| City |
Fox Lake Illinois |
| Area |
United States |
| Ethnicity |
Caucasian |
| Sign |
Taurus |
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Height | 5' 5" (165 cm)
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| I am Seeking a |
Man
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Who is Looking
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Long Term |
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| Smoker? |
No |
| Do you drink? |
No |
| Marital Status |
Single |
| Profession |
office clerk |
| Smarts |
N/A |
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| Do you want children? |
Does not want children |
| Do you do drugs? |
No |
| Do you have children? |
No |
| Do you have a car? |
Yes |
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| | About Me |
| | I'm looking for someone like me. Someone who wants a relationship without the kids part. I don't mind if you have kids from a previous relationship but I can not have any of my own. And when I say that, I literally mean I can not have children. I no longer have a uterus. So if you want kids eventually, please don't waste your time (and mine) by contacting me. I'm not interested in dating someone who's only dating me until they can find someone who can have their kids. I want to date someone who is truly capable of being into a woman who can't have their children.
As far as dating in general, I can make the effort to "fit into" someone else's life, but only if they are willing to make the same effort to "fit into" mine. I'm looking for someone who accepts me the way I am, and is not looking to change me, or put unrealistic expectations on me. (I will show you the same respect)
I am looking for someone who can remain a constant in my life (not a revolving door). Someone who shares my interests and my sarcastic sense of humor. Someone who is ok with knowing that I have a brother and mother who live with me that I assist financially due to some health issues they've had, but who's secure enough to know, that this is not going to take away from my interest in you.
You will NOT be "competing" with them for my affections and attention, but they are a part of my life, so, just like your family is important to you, my family is important to me. They can "take care of" themselves for the most part. I just help with some bills, etc. The three of us are fairly close and we get along with each other pretty well. If anything, they are always encouraging me to have a life of my own, apart from them. I just need to be upfront about them and the fact that they will be in my life in some way, for awhile.
I am open to developing something more serious and long term, but ONLY if you'll be ok with the fact that my own living situation is not going to change any time soon. If you want me to meet your family eventually, or be ok with your own specific living situation, then you have to be just as accepting of my family situation as well. Dating is a two way street.
Interests: I love sci-fi, PC adventure games, comicbooks, graphic novels, fantasy, movies, music, old muscle cars, museums, science, history, astronomy, bookstores, anime, all kinds of art (I'm an artist myself), etc. I have interests in both the creative and intellectual worlds. I like the idea of dating someone who can teach me new things, or even be a mentor in certain areas.
Like too many adults these days, we were no exception as far as growing up without a "positive" male role model. I truly believe, that good fathers are just as important as strong mothers. We NEED strong male role models in our lives, now more then ever. I think we do tend to take good men for granted too much these days, and we need to let them know, that they are important, and that they ARE needed.
As far as me personally...I'm 5'5'', 165lbs, pale, green eyes, brown hair, glasses, "full figured" (I am a bit of a "foodie"), goofy, compassionate, very sarcastic, analytical, intuitive, fairly intelligent, artistic, passionate, naughty, silly, extremely liberal, etc...
As far as my personality, I am sweet, kind, etc, but I'm also a smartass, and I can have a bit of an edge sometimes. (In other words, I'm not a doormat or submissive.) I can have a strong personality sometimes, and I enjoy having an opinion on things too. (but I'm not obnoxious) I am looking for these same personality traits in someone I date, but more importantly, someone who does not mind them in me. I also like guys who are talkers. (since I'm a little chatty sometimes) I like to make others laugh with my sarcasm. Sarcasm and witty banter are big turn-ons for me. Not only do I like to "dish it out" sometimes, but I like you to give it right back to me too. I'm also a bit of a goofball. (For example, Will Ferrell still makes me laugh my ass off.)
I have (mild) asthma so I don't date smokers. Also, I'm not a drinker. I'm not a "bar person". I don't mind going to a place to eat that has a bar, but hanging out in bars with drunk people all night is not my idea of fun.
I suppose some might consider me a bit boring, because I tend to like routine and don't mind doing the same things over, and over again. I don't mind trying new things, or going new places, but I do like some stability in my life when it comes to dating. I can be stubborn sometimes (I'm a typical Taurus), so you may have to "push" me a bit from time to time with new things. But I'm loyal, very patient, and a fairly low maintenance girlfriend. I like those traits in others as well (along with a good snarky sense of humor).
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| | First Date |
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Hit a movie, the mall, the bookstore, etc, get a bit to eat, the usual date stuff. I like a "regular" date first to break the ice and see if we have a mutual attraction. I get nervous too still when meeting someone for the first time. I'm looking for more then just "hanging out" with dates. I am looking to date someone regularly. I am open to something long term.
When summer hits, I LOVE hitting the park so that I can go for walks, and people watch. I'm trying to lose more weight, and I just enjoy walking on a nice sunny day. I also like to go for drives if I'm bored. I'd love to go with someone to the Renaissance Faire in Bristol this year. (I've never been.) Or the Planetarium in Chicago.
I'm just looking for a fellow geek/oddball like me. |
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LakeCountyGal has 2 roses that can be sent. |
 Mail Settings (To message LakeCountyGal you MUST meet the following criteria.) |
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Male
Age between 30 and 45
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke
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