I have been married once for 24 years; I have been a widower for 3 1/2 now. I know how to make it last for long haul; been there-done it. I would like a sincere and honesty lady who know what she wants. If you like playing games, find someone else-I don't know how to play. You must be disease and drug free.

First date? Probably go to restaurant for coffee or a meal. Why? It gives us the best opportunity to talk face to face. We will both know where we are going after that meet.