I am a middle aged, attractive, well built,intelligent white male. I am married and have been seems like my whole life. I need the passion, warmth, eroticism, sexual exploration that has been lost. I don't want to ruin my marriage nor do I want to ruin someone else's. I want a very hot friend that needs what I need on an infrequent basis. I want a person that wants what I want, without the fear of disease, complications or anything else that might complicate a perfect relationship. Maybe I am seeking the impossible, however I am an optimist----some wonderful woman---prove me right!

First date----meeting for coffee----getting to know each other and discussing why we are sitting across from one another.