hiya!!!

im ben 30 from essex

never very good at these things, its like writing an advert to sell yaself lol

anyways here goes :)

ive been single 2 years and was told to give this a try so here i am lol

i enjoy going out with my friends as and when i can even if just for a coffee and a catch up (yes men do it to lol)

i like to get out now and again and try and do something different and have a good giggle

love cooking and being cooked for :) not a a massive drinker but is nice to have a cold beer now and again if you've earnt it

enjoy all sorts of music and can lend a ear to almost anything but do like old soul, bit of rnb and like a boogie to some dance music

im here because i was told it was a good place to chat to some decent people instead of some of the other places on the net lol as most of you probably already know

i like to think that maybe one day i will find the right one and would like to settle into a serious relationship :)

so if you like anything on here then please get in touch and have a great new year x

hmmm this is a toughie because everyone is different but im sure whatever was decided it would be great x