I am looking for a man who is kind ;loving ;mature;secure;working;active;independent but who is willing to commit to a real relationship. No head games or bs. Must be honest and serious about finding a soul mate. Been around too long to waste my life playing games and ending up no where. I am not just looking for an internet friend so if you're not willing to meet and see if there is a connection let's not waste each others time. I enjoy the outdoors and just enjoy being with someone I can relate to and talk easily to. I enjoy camping; flower gardening;traveling;weekend getaways;movies;cooking;having friends over;quiet nights by the fireplace and just about anything if I'm with the right person.

First we would have to meet to see if there is any attraction and that would determine if there was a reason for a first date. On a first date it would really depend on what interests we had in common, what time of the year it was and what was happening on the social scene. Utica/Rome is not a very exciting place when it comes to social life( let's face it we wouldn't be here if it was) so I guess we'd have to plan according to time of year and what's happening.