I am a lifelong New Yorker who has learned through trial and error that the brain is one of the sexiest organs in the human body--that a cute woman who can participate in a long conversation after a movie, or who can tell me an effective story with the zest and zeal to make me laugh is in a way more valuble than gold. Give me a sense of humor, sensitivity, an amazing smile, intelligence, and a fearlessness when it comes to PDAs, and you've got my attention. So wow me...make me sit up and take notice, and we may have some fun!

I want it to be very clear--I am a large man. I've been told I am attractive, but that's up to you to decide. I live a modest, fairly geeky life. If you're looking somebody movie star handsome with a highly lucrative job who will just sweep you off your feet, I'm not for you. If you're looking for someone who will electrify you and be the effortless solution to all your worries, I'm also not for you. But if you do take a chance on me, what you'll get is someone who's actively funny, is articulate, who will listen to you and give you valid input when you want it, who is loyal and supportive and will help you grow. If you're looking for someone like that, someone you can fall in love with as opposed to the man you've already fallen in love with...well, then, send me a note and let's talk.

Dinner and a movie, dessert afterwards for conversation.