SWF 26, single mom of 2. My kids are my life but i miss having that special someone in my life and have enough love for him as well as my children. I hate drama!! Be straight forward with me, i am definatley into games, players, liars or stupid men who think i am not smart enough to see thru their BS. I have had bad luck with men, they have with the exception of one been liars, or say they want the same things as me but do not. i am a strong woman and i know what i wan from a relationship and out of life. i eventually want to get married and have more children. but i know that you have to start somewhere first. talking, dating then into a relationship. so i am here trying to find some people who want what i want. im looking to settle down. the men i have been meeting have been losers and im soooo done with the bullsh*t highscool games. i want to be in a relationship again. i miss going out to the movies and cuddling at home with my man. i am a very good woman and am a great girlfriend. but i have been hurt too many times and have been lied to and cheated on. and i deserve someone better than that.
i an a very loving & caring , sweet & funny person. i am shy at first but then i warm up to you if you make me comfortable.
i am a BBW(cute & thick) if your not into that then than you for reading and hope you find what your looking for if you are good, wont be a BBW forever but as of right now i am. so that's me
i like going to movies,hanging out, going on short vacations or long vacations, havne't done that in a while..lol, i can go to bars but i normally dont just hang out at then for the hell of it..lol, spending a quiet night at home,spendng time with my family and friends. family is very important to me. i do have a bit of a potty mouth that i am trying to control..lol. i do not do drugs (NONE), i rarely drink, i am disease free and intend to stay that way.
I have my own goals in life and will be sucessful
i am not looking for a sexual relationship with some ie. friends w/ benefits, i will not sleep with you on the first date so please don't waste my time. i do understand that sex comes with a relationship and that is perfectly fine with me but i am not looking for a fling. or one night stand.
I may sound a little like a **** but i really am not i am just sick of the bad men & losers, i want to be straight up with what i am looking for and what i expect. i'm tired of games and an tired of wasting my life with men who do not deserve a great gal like me!
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I treat my man with respect and am very romantic, i like to do little things like suprise you with lunch etc.
I am a smart Woman and i want a smart Man.
i am attracted to the person not his apperance but obviously there has to be a physical attraction.
any comments or questions just ask
thanks PIC 4 PIC....you've seen mine it's only fair, i don't base my decisions on looks alone but there has to be an attraction. hope you agree.
I'm a sweet girl with some old fashioned values (man takes care of woman, woman takes care of man.) I need someone special. A good fit would be someone successful, healthy, happy, and willing to commit. If I find you, I'll worship you.
I live i elk grove and prefer someone who is close to me. i am NOT into long distant relationships. Please be in the Sacramento Area

About YOU:
must have a job/career
must have your own car
must have your own place (home/apartment etc)
must be romantic
must want to have a serious relationship
must want more children (at least one)
must be between the ages of 26 and 34 NO older & NO younger. Thank you
I am not interested in black men/asian men or middle eastern men, nothing against you that's just not my preference. :-)
You must be mentally stable and finacially stable, i am not a gold digger but i do NOT want to live pay check to pay check with someone.
You must be able to accept my faults as i will you and not try to change me. if i change it will be becasue of myself.
I want someone who wants me in their life but not to be their WHOLE life.
No stalkers PLEASE!
You must know how to treat a woman, treat me like a princess and i will treat you like a prince.
I want a man who wants some things out of life that I do but, also has his own goals
I want a man who has a job/career and makes decent money
I want a man who wants a serious relationship
I want a man who makes me feel special
I want a man who if he is busy on the weekend will take me with him just so he can be with me.
I want a man who if we were to get into a serious relationship would treat my children as his own, as would I if he has children.
I want a man that will bring me flowers for no reason
I want a man who enjoys going out on the weekends and some week nights
I want a man who can openly communicate and is willing to compromise
I want a man that I can connect with on more than a physical level
I want a man who has an opinion and willingly shares it
I want a man who agrees that life is fun and worth being involved in
I want a man I can connect, learn, grow and have fun with
I want a man who knows how to be spontaneous/romantic
I want a man who understands that my children come first and always will
I want a man who is a handy man
I want a man who can cook
I like it when a man texts me during the day just to tell me he's thinking of me. and calls me before he goes to bed to say good night even if im already asleep and he leaves a message i will get in the morning.
Looking for a strong, confident man, who has his life together. I want someone who likes to be in control, but can share the control with me as somethings in my life i like to be in control of but am willing to share the control.
I know that it seems like that i am asking for alot but i do not think i am. i am asking for a MAN! not a little boy or a boy who THINKS he's a man. I am at the point in my life that i want to settle down with that special someone and begin a life together.
I look forward to hearing from you!

If your just going to comment on me being a BBW or that i have one too many kids or any other advise i don't want please do not email me,or that i am asking for too much from a man, i dont need your advise. Thank You