I'm wanted in 15 countries, so I won't be posting a great up close headshot on an online dating site. OK, that's only the half-truth. I've found that it doesn't matter if you use match.com or eharmony.com, most people click your profile based on your photo. And while it's great to be noticed for a physical attribute, I really want someone who thinks we're compatible in the brain area to respond. Here's a tip though, if your top photo is of you shirtless and flexing for the camera, we're probably not a match. Yes, I do have photos you can see. I'm a picture fanatic. I have lots of them, and don't think I'm at all "unfortunate looking." But, if you'd like to see a photo, you can ask... However, when you do, you should also be able to tell me why you think we're a good match. And please don't say "because you seemed interesting." The truth is, I have a career where I meet lots of people in the community, and sometimes I get noticed when I'm out. The last thing I need is for people to say, hey...didn't I see you on a dating Web site. Awkward! ;)

Hmmm. I think first dates depend on the person you're spending time with. You can't pick a thing to do out of thin air. You base it on the chemistry between two people...

That said, here's a little about me since I won't be using this space for "my perfect date."

For as simple as I am, only a handful of people ever really know what I'm thinking. I like unconventional things and unconventional ways of doing things. At the same time, I'm into tradition. I'm a hugger. If you don't like physical contact, you shouldn't stand next to me. I'm a happy person, sometimes ridiculously and annoyingly happy. I love to dance. Expect to partake in shaking your groove thing, too. I crave adventure and spontaneity . I appreciate surprises. I'm tough, but I am a girl and can break easily. Don't treat me like a girl if we're competing for something though. I hate that. I'm not afraid to get dirty, but I can live without bugs. I go to the beach when I need to clear my head. Being alone in the dark is a childhood fear I haven't been able to shake. If you dress like Michael Myers for Halloween, expect to be punched in the face. I'll apologize later. I'm named after my parents. Restricting yourself to one political party is silly. I'd rather ride a subway to work most days. I love cross-country trips. Never learned to drive a stick. Patience is definitely a virtue. If you know who Penny Parker is and why I couldn't stand Terry Hatcher for the longest, we'd probably hit it off. I love mocha frappuchinos. All I really require is that you laugh (and love) like you mean it.

So if you read all this (or a portion of it) and you're still interested, maybe we can chat. I'm looking to meet someone who's well-rounded, has spirit, has at least mediocre grammatical skills, a job, no serious criminal record,and an education. Not being mean, just optimistic!