update:11/24/09{I'm kinda new to all this and if i view your profile but didn't message you, dosen't mean i wouldn't like to chat but, so far everyone i message dosen't even bother to reply with "no"...feel free to drop me a line if you'd like to chat}

I like going to museums, parks, going on a drive to a town i've never been to before
just to see whats there. I enjoy 80's punk, some top 40's, old skool rap, a variety of music. I'm not a huge sports fan, i'll go to an event but don't follow teams or watch football on tv. I have a job I like and that pays the bills and i'm just looking to meet someone possibly to connect with or at a minimum hang out with and start a great friendship. so really i'm looking for friends as much as anything.
and i openly admit i'm not photogenic but look strikeingly like uncle fester every time i take my own pic...though not in real life...i'm bad at photography.

first date... I find it best to chat a bit then decide on a place we'd have fun at in common. That said I'm clueless it's been forever since i had to do anything remotely like this and am open to suggestions.