I am someone who enjoys his life but wants to find someone to spend his time with other than my family and friends. I am very happy in my job as day to day I feel challenged but I also want to feel happy outside of work. I live in the west end of Toronto by myself but I enjoy going out and seeing Toronto.
The person I want to meet is someone who likes to laugh, is happy in their lives aand does not smoke or does not have children. I would like to get to know someone first and be friends and then see where it goes.
Just a note I respond to messages only with pictures of that person becuase I want to know what the person looks like (there are several types of beauty) and that they are willing to take the time to write something to me.

I don't have one standard idea about first dates but usually when I first met someone I like to either take a walk with them and talk or just sit and have a coffee/tea and really to get to know someone. No one should feel pressure during this meeting. Usually if we are both enjoying what we are doing it doesn't feel like a date and we can both enjoy ourselves from either going bowling, going at an art show, or other stuff that people say they want to do but never do.