Looking for a nice girl for friendship. I would like to meet a nice girl for fun times possibly leading to something more serious. Friends to begin with and we will see how it goes from there.
I am also fine with kids. I like kids, they are fun to have around and keep you young and have no problems at all with girls that have children.
I have just returned from 5 months working in Indonesia and would like to find a nice girl to spend some time with. Someone to go out to dinner with, have a few wines at the beach, or just chill out at home over good conversation and maybe a movie. I am not really a clubbing type, I do like to go out to bars etc, but not all the time.
I like to cook and to me a great night is cooking for friends and enjoying some good food and wine at home with friends.
I must be getting old :-), but the push and shove of the clubs is not something I find appealing anymore.
I do prefer Asian girls, don't really know why but I have spent alot of time in Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia and Thailand and the Asian girls have grown on me :-)But that is also not set in stone. I just want to meet a nice girl and am not too hung up on where she is from.

First dates need to be casual. There is alot of pressure to impress and formal dinner dates etc just tend to add to the uneasiness.
Loud clubs are also out, how can you get to know someone if you can't talk.
I would be happy having a coffee or a beer on the deck at Hillary's and just talk in a relaxed atmosphere. If that goes well then we can make plans for dinner :-)