Top ten reasons why you should write back if I drop you a line:

10. Impecable grammar.
9. Suprisingly clean jail record.
8. Will ask for directions if lost.
7. Shave whiskers and brush teeth on regular basis.
6. Amicable and capable opponent in scrabble, chess, or cribbage.
5. Weekend home delivery subscription to NY Times.
4. Will stay awake to chat afterwards.
3. Get along well with cats.
2. Conveniently located near downtown New Haven, I 91 and 95 exits, east rock park, and Orange Street markets and delis.
1. Free Russian Lessons!

Oh, nothing too fancy for that first meet-up. Maybe a mid-morning cup of coffee downtown or drinks at Rudy's or Anchor. Keep it simple, keep it safe, is my motto for the first date.