I’m originally from the Ocean State…..now in CA 3 years and new to Northern CA 1 year. Yes I am still green but have found some very intersting places and learning everyday.

More about me....I am 100% Italian, divorced 6 years, have 2 beautiful grown children (do not live with me), professionally employed, have a heart, very normal (what is normal anyway?), honest, give more than recieve, great sense of humor (humm...have you detected that yet?...if not read on), etc.

A little more about me....I like to explore new places and take long drives to see what the world has to offer. I am spontaneous but like to plan (best of both worlds), dine, dance, movies, theater, travel and anything on/near the ocean and like the cheese, "it is all goo-da". I am romantic, well I'm Italian and there you go.

As for my goatee, I may or may not have it.....yes, if you are all curious, I really am a hit man for the mob and need to change my appearance quite often.

Now the serious side of me (nuts and bolts....LOL) What am I attracted to is a woman who has a slender, slim, thin, atlethic or average build. The way I see things is I am a handsome guy and why should WE settle, right? I seek a LTR and would love to get off of this site!!! If you looking for someone just to date once in a while please pass me by....as Elvis would say, "thank you very much". I believe a realtionship should be like wood. Oak (strong), teak (very nice to look at) and mahogany (one on one). This may soound a little old fashion but that is me.

"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. And enjoy your life." If you love someone tell them and more important mean it....it is amazing how three little words "I love you" has an effect on a person.

I took the personality test (like I did not know myself, ha) to see who is a good match for me. I never looked at a personality test for a relationship match but I am a ENFP and my natural partner is a INTJ, or a INFJ, go figure.

Lastly, all I ask is please be over your last relationship and be open and honest with me. Pretty simple stuff here don't you agree?

Coffee, juice or your favorite beverage.....than maybe dinner. Seize the moment and we will play it by ear when we meet.