well, as im sure u can tell from my headline, i love to shoot pool and i consider myself to be decent at it. i like a variety of music including rock, country, swing, classical, and 80's and 90's. im a huge animal lover. i have 1 cat, 2 dogs, and 2 fish. they r my babies and mean the world to me. i also play the flute, some guitar, and percussion. i have a good sense of humor and im looking for someone that has the same. im also looking for someone that is honest, faithful, kind, caring, considerate, and dependable. and NOT MARRIED. u must be completely divorced for me to even consider going out with u. "separated" is not single, and "in the middle of a divorce" is not single. dont need any of that drama. also, my ideal guy must take care of himself. im not expecting a suit and tie when u go out with me, but at least shower and put on some clean clothes lol. i put forth some effort to look nice for you, please at least consider doing the same for me. and yes, that has been an issue in the past lol. i do not consider myself materialistic and im not looking for someone that is. although this should be a given, not really interested in those with a long criminal record, stalkers, child molesters, or any of the such. no one is perfect, but at least be responsible enough to stay out of jail/court for the most part. i like a guy that is self confident but not self absorbed. NOTE: I DO NOT WANT TO DATE ANYONE THAT DOES ILLEGAL DRUGS OF ANY SORT. (yes that counts pot, and i know that many just lost interest now, but oh well) I DONT AND I EXPECT THE SAME.

** revision #1543 it seems.... i guess i have to state this again... please dont message me unless u r 100% single and looking for someone to date and get to know, hopefully for relationship potential.

** revision #2057 lol.......ok i do like kids, and not opposed to dating someone with kids. im a little shy of it to be honest, as ive had a bad experience, but i will date someone with a couple of kids. having said all that, if u have 6 kids with 5 or 6 different women, ummm sorry, please just keep on fishing lol. no i dont have kids, and no i do not want to be #6 of your baby mommas.

lets see...on a first date... a few games of pool would be a good activity. it gives u time to talk to the person, but not much pressure to come up with conversation starters. the game gives u something to discuss. plus i just like to play lol. after that, maybe some dinner or late night snack depending on what time it was and where we were at.