Well to tell a little about myself I'm single and live on my own with my 2 cats. I have red hair, blue eyes and no I'm not Irish. I'm a simple girl who likes to do simple things but lives life to it's fullest.

What I like to do most is spend time at home either watching tv or just being on the internet. What I'm not into is the bar or club scene. Unless I'm there shooting darts, I find it to be a big waste of time. I would prefer just going to a nice restaurant having a nice dinner and maybe a move afterwards.

The type of person I'm looking for is someone between the ages of 35-45 WHO LIVES IN THE SUBURBS. Someone that likes to spend time at home with going out every now and then. I'm looking for a non-smoker, someone that drinks socially only and also likes pets especially cats and dogs. Someone who likes country music is definitely a plus. I want someone who's honest, kind, caring, understanding and treats the woman right. Someone I can completely be myself with and not have to sensor everthig I say. Someone that can appreciate the "little things" in life such as a greeting card or a text message just because. Someone that likes to communicate by phone especially when times might prevent us from spending time together.

WHAT I'M NOT LOOKING FOR IS SOMEONE THAT HAS KIDS. Although that's great that you have a family already, I would like to start a family of my own and to be able to experience that with someone else who feels the same way. I'm also not looking for someone that works a ton of hours and has their job attached at their hip. If you work a lot then you shouldn't be looking in the first place because you know as well as I do that you won't have time to devote in getting to know someone.

Lastly, I'm looking for someone that can communitate in a timely fashion here on POF. Waiting 6 days before first responding to a message they sent you is not exceptable. If you can't check messages AT LEAST twice during the week and once on the weekends then you're not for me. I don't make other people wait for a response so please don't make me wait. If you know that you can't reply in a timely fashion don't even waist my time by messaging me. Move on to someone else that likes their time waisted because I don't. I think we all know what is exceptable and what isn't.

If this sounds like you, I would love to hear from you. Feel free to IM me if you see me on line or you can send a message to my mailbox. Thank you!

On a first date I would go out to dinner at a nice restaurant and maybe a movie afterwards. If that goes well and it's a nice night out I would suggest going for a walk. Depending on how the conversation went over dinner I might invite them back to my place to continue the conversation over coffee and dessert.