New to the area. you can also FB me. desmond higginbotham. I'll add you =)

Let me first start by saying, DONT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!!!!! thanks.

And i love the emails but the one liners really shows lack of effort. especially when i type paragraphs to some only to be deleted, at least show some class via a reply even if its a "thanks, not interested" i would appreciate that.

Hello, and thanks for stopping in. My name is Desmond,im mixed with German (mom) and Black (dad). i was raised in Germany and moved to America in 1985. Grew up in Hampton VA, Graduated from Radford University in 2001. I currently live in Roanoke VA not by choice.[[moved to Raleigh, NC on Sept 1st]] My career brought me here.

This online dating thing is totally new to me so i really dnt know what to say. character wise im the guy that comes to work and people automatically smile when they see me. Life is way to short to be unhappy or grumpy all the time. I love joking around and seeking the humor in every plausable situation. Im sure you read it all the time on here but i truely have a good heart and enjoy life even thru the ups and downs. Im a hopeless romantic, very spontanious and a big fan of cuddling. Yes im a big guy but i carry it very well, I said big not fat. id prefer fluffy or well structured. The pics up top are current and show what i look like. Dont want any surprises if we decide to meet. LOL

Im hoping to meet somebody with the same interests. somebody who enjoys life as much as i do. Somebody who seeks out the adventure in life and makes the best of any sitution. Race is not a deciding factor for me, my immediate family consists of many different cultures. Im the youngest of three older brothers, all married with children and i have five adopted little sibblings. Yes i have a huge loving family. I have a beautiful three year old daughter living in Hampton VA with her mother and step father, and yes i see her often when i go home for the extended weekends.

Well if anything ive said makes you smile or raises any interest please do by all means send me an email. ( more than "hey" ) LOL

If im not your match then best of luck in your search .

Hope to hear from you,

Des'mond H.

Good judgment comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgment.

If you do what you can, God will do what you can't.

My will shall shape the future. Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the force; I can clear any obstacle before me or I can be lost in the maze. My choice; my responsibility; win or lose, only I hold the key to my destiny.

A small truth to make our Life's 100% successful.
If A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
Is equal to 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17
18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
Then H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K = 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 =98%
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E = 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 =96%
L+O+V+E=12+15+22+5 = 54%
L+U+C+K = 12+21+3+11 = 47%
(None of them makes 100%)

Then what makes 100%
Is it Money? No!!!!!
Leadership? NO!!!!
Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our "ATTITUDE".
It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes
OUR Life 100% Successful..
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E = 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 =100%
Don't you think so?!?!?!?!

anything fun, by all means anything fun. Grab some coffee and talk, let the preceeding conversations determine.