hi there........sooooo,thought maybe i should actually put something that may be usefull on here instead of crap.(you know what i mean).
i have kids and they are a major part of my life so if this is not your thing believe me i do understand and respect that.i work and yes i do like my job.don't like having to go as much as i do but i enjoy every minute ..haha.. i worked as a chef for many years so yes i can cook and i still love the feeling of making people happy with something tasty.(i gave it up for a more promising career though)
although i don't mind starting slow,my goals are simple i suppose,i want to be happy.i want to find someone that i love to be around and that i think about when i'm not,i like to be happy and i find humour in most things even when maybe i shouldn't(i've learnt how to hide that though,sometimes,hehe).don't get me wrong,personal space is a good thing but the right snuggable person is a nice bonous isn't it?
music of all kinds are a good thing too.my tastes are more to the rockish and heavier side but gotta listen to something else at times too ya know,after all diferent moods need diferent soundtracks right? bit of a movie junkie so if you ask i may tell.
so i don't keep babbling like i know i can.i guess my ultimate goal is to find a connection.someone who when ya think of them warms your heart and makes you smile just because
kids are not baggage they are part of life.gotta look at life through their eyes in order to truely grasp how simple things can be. soo enough from me right now.make me laugh! make me smile!

hmmm a first date..how about we meet and see if there's a connection in person then go from there.