I'm a bright, breezy, optimistic guy with a deep, dark secret. I'm unsatisfied with monogamy! I really miss the "getting to know you" part of a relationship when everything is new and interesting.

I'm looking for someone to share my secret, and maybe tell me one of her own.

Conversation interests include (but are not limited to): your career, family, political ideals, movies, books, recipes for guinea pig.

I'm a musician and fan of acoustic folk: John Prine, Joe Nichols, Nancy Griffith, Janis Ian, etc. I also like to mix it up in my Pandora.com account with some gangsta rap, classic 70's rock, and Austin Lounge Lizards.

Things I really don't want to talk about include (but are not limited to): your cat, your mother's detailed medical history, the weather, favorite color, high gas prices.

Let's meet for a drink after work and talk about our families, jobs, crazy business ideas, and see if the night ends in a good-night kiss.