As it is spontanious, I work for myself in a repair business that requires me to be on call 24hr but manage to spend quality time with my German Shepherds and to train for competitive obedience with them. I do find that I would like have some time with the right person for an ocasional meal out or just to waste away an afternoon.

I think a first date should allow a person to bail out comfortably if it is not going well and the best situation for that would be to meet for cofee or to go for an nice dessert on Preston street. That way you are guaranteed to leave with a sweet taste of the encounter