Just looking for that Mr Right!! which for some reason is proving rather difficult.

So here it is - -
ME:
Saracastic sense of humour - sometimes it a little dark - sometimes a wee bit crude.
I work hard for what money I do have and even though I will complain about my job secretly I love it.
I originally come from South Africa but have settled here - I go home whenever I can.
I value my friends and family more than anything else in this world!! and there isn't much I won't do for them.
I'm incredibly stubborn and hate to be wrong about anything! this doesn't mean I can't admit when i've made a mistake.
I hate confrontation!!
I'm terrified of birds and dying in a car accident(the reason i've never learnt to drive)
I want a family more than anything.
I won't take peoples crap and don't suffer fools lightly.
I like to have some me time ; i'm not ignoring you.....i'm just regrouping myself.
I just started to collect DVDs and enjoy reading a good book well okay books more than one at a time!!
I have two cats and consider them to be part of my extended family. I also have a soft spot for dogs.
I can be moody and irrational occasionally, I'm not messy but i'm not immaculate either.
I would like to re-train at uni!!!
I enjoy doing the laundry...but I draw the line at ironing
I don't pretend to be anything i'm not
I'm naturally suspicious!!!...i'm not however a bunny boiler.

You:
need to genuine and upfront, must be in full time employment and have ambition.
You must want to at some point consider a family(even if it isn't me).
should like pets
you should be able to give as good as you get...this is a two way road!!! if you respect me I will respect you.
basically you need want the same out of life as I do.
Just looking or that one geniune guy!!!!

I HAVE DECIDED:

That there are a large number of engineers(that isn't a bad thing) of all kinds on this site! and weirdly enough most of them are Capricorns:)

Something simple and uncomplicated like a coffee!!

Male
Age between 25 and 36
Live within 75 miles.
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Must not do drugs
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