Rumour has it some women actually Read these things...What a coincidence!!- I actually wrote one! I must admit I am somewhat disenchanted with online dating. I find myself thinking a cabin in Alaska with the squirrels and moose might be a happier option for me some times. Honesty- it is like fools gold- you think you found it and then it flakes on you. Looks are important to everyone- it opens the door and is simply human nature. We need that in someone on some level- that we feel attracted. It depends on what attracts another, and the self image of some may not allways be in allignment with the one others may percieve. I am better than most- I just dont nessesarily look it....I am a 49 year old father of two beautiful adult daughters, self employed, divorced...and bored with being single .I love to have fun and laugh, and especially like to see those around me do the same, life is way too short.I do have a serious side, unfortunatly my evil twin is out of the country, so I can't really prove that right now...But, I digress...
I am not a needful guy, some days I could'nt really care less that no one is here to share my successes and misfortunes with. I have my cat and he understands me. And some days I see the sun rise in the morning after being up all night and wish I never had to sleep. The one thing that drives me on in this pursuit is the memory of what it feels like to hold someone in my arms that I love and who loves me. For that moment almost everything in the world is allright, and that which isn't made allright in the fusion of love doesn't really matter.I am positive energy, I have love, I make sense to me. I know myself. I have no facades to shed, no private face. I really just want to enjoy what's left of this long strange wonderful trip called life. I am young still, not in years, but in aspirations and desires. I have a lot to achieve artistically and otherwise. I am in no search of a muse or a trifle. I search for the Queen of my life to be her King - the dragon is dead and the castle plans are nearly complete
I am a reasonably intellegent, stable guy, looking for the last girlfriend I will ever have. Looking for the magic formula that makes me think it is all worth it.
Reaching into the subconcious for a trigger phrase that denotes an essence of truth, an atmosphere of intrique, and the fragrance of forever, I stumble on too many notions to recite clearly the core of who I really am.
I long for friendship- it is the warm center and shines like the sun when it is harmonic between a man and woman. I reach out for love with love in my hands for someone who has the reciprocal interest and desire. I need intellegence and stability in someone and I aim to provide those very same attributes.
I am fairly happy with the person I am , but I find that life is an ongoing personal repair-on-the-fly ordeal for most of us. Lets face it- most of us need a little tweaking from right out of the package up to planting time. Hopefully this excercise is less nessesary as time goes on, but you never are too old to learn something new.
I have many interests and goals. I intend on enjoying life and seeing as much of the world as I can before the ride is over.

dinner, talk......

Age between 40 and 51
Live in United States
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married