I am 5'6", 145lbs. Shoulder length reddish brown hair with greenish brown eyes. I love music in a wide range. Love to work out with weights. Love to cook for whoever would be around to appreciate it. I love to cuddle up on the couch and watch movies. I love to be active. Have participated in some derbys I do consider that to be quite the rush. Anything wild and fun I am definately into. I believe in living life to the fullest and for the moment. And in the summer time, not only am I a true beach bunny but I love to party!!!!! I love to read just about anything that I can get my hands on to. Just recently I have decided to go back to college and do some more studing into a new and hopefully promising career in massage therapy. I can't wait to get started. I have four children. For me I consider all four of them the greatest things I have ever done. Even when they are driving me crazy and making my hair go grey really fast. I am very honest and straight forward I will always tell it like it is. I cannot stand any type of lie in any way. Right now I guess you could say that when a man is interested in me and comments on my looks and how my body is that is a direct turn off. I do understand it is what attracts a person to another. However I do have other qualities, that if a person was interested or taking the time to get to know me would notice them also. And maybe comment more on those qualities Lately when I have gone on dates and men have constantly commented on my looks or apperance continuously it makes me wonder if they are just into one thing. Especially you handsome men on here that have on your profiles that you are interested in a long term......lol.....makes a person go "hmmmmm?" I am 40 years old, but I don't really feel that old. But with my age, I have come to be the kind of person that if I was to meet someone and become interested in. I would hope to intitially be friends with a friendship that would grow like a flower. Have the companionship that we both could depend and trust in one another to enjoy our time together for however long that maybe. As I said at my age, I am beyond the point of playing the high school drama games, don't have the time or energy. I do enjoy good conversation and a good time. If you like what you have seen and read, send me a message, would definately enjoy chatting and getting to know you!

First Date.........hmmmmm do coffee first at Tim Horton's, that would be a way to get to know the person. Or if it was the weekend go to a bar and shoot a few games of pool and have some fun. If the atmosphere was relaxed I would probably feel comfortable to play flirt. See how that went.........if that went well would have to see how the first kiss went. Alot can be told in a first kiss. If the kiss is definately good as the kisser, definately an overnight visit is in the works.