I am looking for a relationship that is built on friendship, love, trust, honesty, great communication, faithfulness, and centered around God. I want this person to be my best friend, husband, & lover all in one. Someone whose eyes would spark when he sees me. Someone who is honest & real & knows what true love is all about.

This person would also be someone that would understand me & get me without words & would love me unconditionally…faults & all. He would be someone that I'm very compatible with & could experience amazing chemistry with on ALL levels…spiritual, mental, emotional, & physical. I would like someone with whom I have a lot in common with so that we can do things together as a couple... someone who is willing to share my interests & my passions as I will his.

I love to laugh & have fun & I value that in someone as well. I definitely look for a great personality and a great sense of humor in someone. I want to be with someone that knows how to have fun and who loves to laugh. I’ve been told that I’m fun and funny, and it definitely comes out more depending on who I’m with and the situation. I like to have fun whether I’m going out on the town or I’m just staying home cuddled up on the couch with that special person. If you can make me laugh, that is a very good thing. ? I also like it when someone is outgoing & can carry on a conversation, but isn't obnoxious.

I love to have conversations--not continual surface chatter, but meaningful discussions that mutually reveal the real person underneath. There's nothing wrong with surface chatter, but not all the time. You can't truly get to know someone if you don't spend time talking about deeper things and having meaningful discussions. I love to have fun, but I'm also a deep person and would like to find someone who is the same. I'm a very good listener, but I also love to talk and share with someone who really gets me and with whom I have a great connection with. It's the best feeling in the world.

I want someone who would appreciate me & my heart & all I have to offer. I am a romantic at heart. I'm the type of person that wants to walk beside my husband hand in hand....supporting him....encouraging him...and being his right hand. There are times that I like my space, but when I am with someone I truly love, I want to spend most of my free time with him. I long to be with him...I desire to be with him...I want to talk to him as much as possible...and I miss him when he's gone.

Outward attraction is important too, but it’s not everything. Physical attraction is what draws you to someone in the beginning, but personality is what keeps you together.

I enjoy most sports such as football, basketball, tennis, golf, cycling, etc. & would love to share that w/ someone. If you want to watch a sporting event on TV, then I’ll probably be right there watching it with you. I also like to go to live sporting events too.

I value & appreciate someone that can help around the house (cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc)...not that I wouldn't do those things if I were with someone, but I think that relationships work best when you share in responsibilities....
I'm attracted to intelligence (which I find sexy), sincerity, faithfulness, sensitivity, kindness, tenderness, integrity, loyalty, devotion, patience, love, compassion, forgiveness, chivalry, self-sufficiency, and ambition.

I'd like someone who understands responsibility which includes taking care of his family financially, emotionally, & spiritually. I'd like someone who has excellent communication skills, can express his innermost thoughts & feelings & isn't afraid of real intimacy. I believe that communication is so vital to a relationship. I heard John Hagee say one time that "communication to a relationship is like blood to the body" Without communication a relationship will die. Without blood, our bodies would die. It's so important to have good, honest, and open communication in a relationship.

I also believe in resolving conflict rationally and am willing to talk things out. I would like someone that shares this belief as well.

I also need someone who is going to be sensitive to my needs. I am a sensitive person and can get hurt easily, but I’m also very loving and protective of the ones I love.

I love it when someone calls to say hi to me every day or calls me every day just to talk. I love to receive compliments and I love to give them as well. I love little notes, voice mails, sweet txt msgs, emails, e-cards, or cards just to say hi or that he's thinking about me, that he loves me, or that he misses me, etc. I'm the type of person to do all those things as well and I notice all the small things b/c they really do matter to me so much.

I'd like someone who is not afraid of commitment, marriage, or family. I think that we all have some kind of fear when it comes to love, but love is giving someone the power to break your heart, but trusting them not too.

I do have a child, so it's extremely important to me that I meet someone that will love my child as his own which I know takes a very special person to ask that of.
He must also be LOYAL, FAITHFUL, and emotionally healthy/available. We all have baggage, but it's how you have dealt with that baggage that's important to me.
Some other things that I find attractive in someone are.....a great listener... goal oriented & plans for the future, is giving, forgiving, understanding, non-judgmental, a hard worker,(being a handy man is a plus), technically minded, well-read, and musical...(whether it's singing, playing an instrument, or both).

He would be respectful and loving towards me, & knows how to treat a woman like a princess (opening car doors, etc.)…flowers & cards for any reason…e-cards, or little notes left here and there, etc. Someone who is VERY romantic & VERY affectionate (cuddling, kissing, hugging, holding hands, massages, candlelight dinners with wine, etc). I also believe that physical affection and sex are vital to a healthy relationship and marriage.

I want a real, deep, & meaningful relationship…so no mind games, please. I know what I want & certainly would never settle for less.

I may be an independent person and self-sufficient, but I'm still a little old fashioned when it comes to romance. I still believe in letting a man treat me like a lady...having him do things for me if he so chooses...and letting him pamper me which I love :) :)

I'm a VERY affectionate person when I'm with the right person and the way to my heart is through romance and all the little things that maybe other people don't appreciate. Gentleman....Please don't be disheartened if you think that every woman has jumped on the feministic and liberated band wagon when it comes to relationships....there is still a small segment of us left out there that are still a little old-fashioned when it comes to romance.......

To top this all off, I'm basically looking for my best friend...my soul mate....the one that I can feel 100% comfortable and secure with and can talk, laugh, and cry with.

I know that what I said above may sound like a lot and you may think that I'm looking for perfection......but I'm smart enough to realize that no one is perfect. I put this out there, b/c these are the types of things I look for in someone. This is a culmination of different relationships and finding out what I like and don't like in someone. I only want to get married one time, and I know that God will show me ultimately who the right person is when he comes along. :) I'm very down to earth, approachable, and easy going. If you read this profile and feel that you and I would have a connection, then Please contact me. I would love to hear from you


For the first date...If there is chemistry, then it doesn't really matter what you do b/c you're going to have fun. I do love to laugh and have fun. I like to have a good time no matter what I'm doing.

I would like to meet a guy who is a TRUE gentleman and knows how to treat and romance a woman. Lets see how creative and romantic you can be. If you don't know how, then read up on it. There is tons of info on the internet these days and books out there to teach you about what women want. I have found that most men don't have a clue when it comes to this kind of stuff. What will you do to stand out from the rest? ;) That is my challenge to you. :)

P.S. I'm not sure what it is, but I've run into several guys that have pretended to be someone else by putting up pictures of other people. If the pics on your profile are not of you, then please don't contact me. If we start talking, then I would ask you to show me your face on webcam just so that I can see if the pics match the person I'm talking to. I will do the same. Only fair considering the amount of deception that is out there online. I know that I don't want to waste anyone's time so please don't waste mine.