I am NOT looking for instant marriage, friends with benefits (I'd need to call a friend I already have for that, naturally) or one night stands (ick). Thanks!

Ahhhh, body, mind, spirit, right? Hopefully I can prove there are some women out there who have more than just T&A. But it certainly doesn't hurt to have that as well...does it?

Speaking of which, the best way to learn about me is to read this profile for information and follow forum posts. That should tell you quite a bit. I like people that like to read, just a head's up.

If I added you to my favorites: It means I like something about you. I either follow your forum posts, thought you were cute, or thought you had a good profile (or both). In some cases I bookmarked you to make sure I could get back to your profile and read it thoroughly when I had more time. So go ahead and send a message if you want to.

Other than forums, I'm not here with a dating goal. However, if I somehow meet someone I'm ACTUALLY attracted to, and we become good friends, it may turn into more, and that's cool, but I don't seek it out actively. I just go with the flow.

How did I get here? I signed on as moral support for someone else who needed to get back out and start dating. Why am I still here? I'm now a forum junkie and have made a few friends...

I'm social and love chatting with just about anyone, as long as they don't mistake friendly chatting for interest...most of the time, the two just aren't related. I might date someone if/when I see someone that makes me want to...well, actually go on a "date". In the meantime, I'm fine with life as is.

Physically - If you're tall, handsome, athletic/active, actually single, between 30 and 45 and have most traits listed below, you might be able to convince me to consider it.

I'm drawn to those who who take life one day at a time, and love to just live it. Things I like in a person: Be local, fun, be happy/at peace/laid back and relaxed, be intellectual/intelligent/able to spell and well spoken, be confident, but not arrogant, be able to laugh at yourself , take good care of yourself - mind, body and spirit, know what you want and like in your world, but be open to new and different possibilities. Expect nothing, and don't force anything. Go with the flow. Be comfortable with who you are, drama free and able to enjoy your own company. : )