I'm a writer. I realize that my profile says I'm a manager but that job pays the bills while the other one feeds my soul.


I am not your typical girly girl who parades around and wants to live the storybook life. I didn't have a typical life growing up and I'm not really about to start living one now. I do want to meet someone and raise a family but I'm not wanting to "settle down" I'm looking for someone who can capture my attention. I enjoy a bit of smart ass bantering and someone who can hold up their part of the conversation. I am looking for personality with a little bit of sensuality.

I haven't actively done this dating thing in a while but I'm trying to put myself back out there. I have never been the sort of person who clings to a romantic relationship. I don't define who I am by who I know. What I want and miss is a partner in crime. Someone who is secure with who they are. I want someone who has dreams and goals and is willing to put in the effort to achieve them. I want someone who understands the value of the little things rather than the grand concepts that always end up fake. I'm not cynical but I would much rather have a little I love you note, randomly given to me, than to have a big valentines day event.

I admit that the one thing I hate about my profile on here is the body type options. I always think Big and Tall refers to a big muscular football player. I assure you that I am not one. I am also not really that tall at all if you look at my height. I selected the option because I guessed that it summed up what my body type was but I hate the stereotypes that it brings up in the minds of others. I am not just a few pounds overweight and I don't think its appropriate to lie in a profile. I would hate someone to lure me in on a lie so I won't do the same to anyone else. I have a picture up that shows you a general idea of what my body looks like.

A first date is simply a time for a short meeting to see if there is potential.
If the first short date goes well then there is a world of potential. If it doesn't go well then there is still a world full of potential with someone else. I think we are all in this game of dating to find someone that matches but I don't feel the need to squash those who don't match. I respect someone who feels the same regardless of the outcome.