Update.... How do you know if a person is for real or not. That is the question we have to ask ourselves every time we meet or begin talking to someone new. With this thought the following will make better sense... "People will not remember what you did in life, nor what you had. They will always remember how you made them feel!!!!"

To fill out a description of who I am would be a tough thing to do... As really on here I can be who ever I want to be and would you really know any different. Just as you can be whom you want to be. Isn't in today's society everyone tries to be someone there not, they try and be whom they think the opposite sex wants them to be. I have have learned many valuable things over my 44 years of being single, first and foremost to always be honest, no matter what. To never give up the hope of love, while never settling for less than what you want. To always be yourself, while being compassionate and considerate of others around you. Never be afraid of helping someone in need, as it will be paid to you in return(Karma) And always treat others like you would want to be treated. So I hope this gives a little insight to who I am, I don't brag about my accomplishments, but rather would tell you what I have learned through the mistakes that we all make in life, even though most are afraid to admit them. So if you have any other questions please feel free to ask....

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|..../.\.....| CLOSED!!!!!!
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A first date, how does one decide on this, would it be from getting to know the person you ask out? I think so, maybe you don't like steak when I reserve a table at Jess & Jims maybe you can't stand Mexican food while I plan a dinner at Ponaks. Isn't it about talking about things before hand and deciding together what will be the best. Doesn't that make you feel like you are their only thoughts when they take the time to care about what you might want.