HI MS. LADY, HOW ARE YOU? HOW DO YOU BE? I HEARD SOMEONE SAY THAT WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT HUMAN DOINGS. I HOPE YOU BE WELL AND ARE DOING FINE.
YEAH, I KNOW. YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A GOOD MAN, BUT IT'S HARD TO FIND SOMEONE THAT YOU CAN TRUST, GIVE YOUR HEART TOO, LET YOUR GUARD DOWN AND FEEL PROTECTED WITH. YOU'RE CAUTIOUS, MAYBE VERY CAUTIOUS AND RIGHTLY SO. BEING SAFE IS BETTER THAN BEING SORRY, I HEARD. GARTH BROOKS RELEASED A SONG APRIL 1990 CALLED THE DANCE. HERE'S PART OF THE LYRICS (Looking back on the memory of the dance we shared beneath the stars above. For a moment all the world was right. How could I have known you'd ever say goodbye. And now I'm glad I didn't know; the way it all would end; the way it all would go. Our lives are better left to chance. I could have missed the pain but, I would of had to miss the dance).
I FEEL YOU, I'M LOOKING FOR A GOOD WOMAN. BECAUSE OF MY CAUTION I KNOW I'VE MISSED CONNECTING WITH A FEW. MY LOSS NEVERTHELESS, I STILL KEEP MYSELF PREPARED AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE FOR THE CHANCE AT BEING CONSUMED WITH AN ENDLESS LOVE FOR AN INCREDIBLE WOMAN. I DO WANT TO MARRY AGAIN. I WANT THAT FEELING THAT COMES WITH HAVING SOMEONE'S BACK AND THAT SOMEONE HAVING YOUR'S, NO MATTER WHAT. TOTAL TRUST!
YEARS OF TRAVEL BY WAY OF THE MILITARY HAVE ME OPEN MINDED TO LIVING IN NEW PLACES, TRYING NEW THINGS AND GAINING NEW EXPERIENCES. I LIKE RUNNING, EXERCISING, READING, WATCHING TV, GOING OUT TO DINNER, GOING TO THE MOVIE THEATER, GOING OFF FOR THE WEEKEND OR RELAXING AROUND THE HOUSE. I'M AS COMFORTABLE IN A SUIT AND EXOTIC SKIN SHOES AS I AM JEANS, SHORTS OR A WARM UP SUIT. MUSIC WISE I LIKE INSPIRATIONAL, R&B, POP, COUNTRY, BLUES, SOME RAP, ETC., I LIKE MUSIC. I HAVE A SMALL CLASSICAL MUSIC COLLECTION THAT I SOMETIMES LISTEN TO.
I HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE. I CHOSE TO DIVORCE. ALL I CAN SAY ABOUT THAT IS, I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF, I DONT NEED ANY HELP. YES, THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY. I THINK MY SIDE SPEAKS TRUTHFULLY FOR BOTH.
NOT LOOKING FOR MS. PERFECT, JUST MS. PERFECT FOR ME. I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO WILL BE MY BEST FRIEND AND LOVER, SOMEONE WHO IS INDEPENDENT BUT, ENJOYS THE CLOSENESS THAT THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP PROVIDES. SOMEONE WHO I FIND ATTRACTIVE IN SPIRIT, SOUL & BODY. SOMEONE WHO IS INTELLIGENT, WITTY, HEALTHY, PASSIONATE ABOUT THE THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO THEM, AND EASY GOING WHEN IT'S TIME TO KICK BACK AND HAVE FUN.
THERE ARE NO PERFECT PEOPLE IN THE WORLD. I CERTAINLY AM NOT ONE HOWEVER, I EMBRACE WORKING, AM KIND OF OLD FASHIONED BUT AM COMFORTABLE UNDER THE CAR, WORKING IN THE YARD, COOKING IN THE KITCHEN AND DOING MY SHARE IN THE HOUSE.

After being single for a while i find that dating can be hard work. Everybody shows their good side, puts forth their best effort, and are on their best behavior. Who are we really on a first date? Can you really know? At some point within the first three dates or conversations on the phone tough questions have to be asked in order to breakthrough to the real person. Conversation wise on the first date i'm not sure what I'd say. I would try to have fun and enjoy what we are doing. The date would depend on how much we had already talked. We could go for a walk, have a picnic, see a movie, go to a museum, see a play, attend an opera, go to a sporting event, go dancing, shoot pool, or have dinner at a restaurant. It depends...