12/2009 Off the market, meet someone on this site who actually read and liked my old profile, if you can believe it. She says it showed some personality!

If I come back, I'll write something edited but want to keep the profile despite the photos so I don't change my age. Not that anyone on this site would do that!

If you gotten this far, true mutual chemistry is hard to find but that hasn’t stopped me, and hopefully you, from trying. Best of luck in your search, Jim

First dates should be a casual lunch where you can meet and see if there is any mutual chemistry. I like to talk to women over the phone at least a couple of times before meeting in person to see if we enough in common to where we both feel comfortable about meeting in person. Though I am off caffeine, a quick meeting for coffee is fine as long it is local. I’d prefer dinner to meeting for drinks since we should be at decent social level and both our pictures show us as we really are so neither of us is surprised…