Hello My name is Laurin

I do not look at a Woman & think to myself "Can I get her in bed tonight?" I think "Would I like to wake up next to her for the rest of my life"!

If you are looking for a STODGY guy who is in his 50's It Ain't ME I'm Wide Open as A Butcher Knife & full of Life!

Not interested in a woman who needs a man in her life! I'm interested in one who wants me in her life!

Finally the right attitude, she said Her Kids Her Man, There is no First or Last!
Wanna msg me do so at makea_u_smile at the Y

BTW just because I am not from where you are does not mean I won't be just around the corner next week. I travel in my work, so don't dismiss me just because I don't live next door.

Attention Girls: A Young Lady who I did not find appealing sent in a FALSE derogatory report on me out of Spite.If I add you & you are interested, if your profile has "Must not be looking for intimate or sex." You'll have to contact me first!

Lesson Number #1 Girls, Ladies, for some I use that term loosely. If you don't TRUST MEN & aren't going to, Then DO Not Waste My Time. Trust is to be built, But if you have No Intention of ever Developing Trust Please Pass Me By! I Want Someone Who I Can Both Place MY Trust In, that has Capacity to Trust & will Place their Trust in me As I Will Them!

Lesson number #2 I learned lately as it was put to me by a lady I admire, Hey we are all on here for Sex in one way or another! Or at least biggest majority of us, so she says. She asked me how often men think about Sex? I said I don't know! She says the average American Male about once every 3 minutes! Is this right I don't know! Then she asks how often do women think about sex? Again I said I don't know! She says according to research about 60 times more often than MEN!!! Hummmm now I am no Math Major but I think that works out to being once every 3 SECONDS!!! Anyway back to the point. It is not what we want but how we want it and what we want with it. It is like going into a restaurant to get food. Is it Seafood or Steak and Potatoes or some Spicy Dish? Is Sex the main course or is it the Desert an Entrée or ala carte. Some want relationships, some short term some long term, some just stop for a quick treat and go on. Still others go in just to see what is available 'cause it is a new experience. Some are drawn by the flashy exterior outside, others could'nt care less what the outside looks like it is what is offered inside that is the most important. For me it is the whole experience, If I like what I see outside it may get my attention, or a hint of what is inside will definitely get my attention. If I like what is inside I keep coming back for more, and heck just stay forever. Remember She is not loved because She is Beautiful! She is Beautiful Because She is LOVED! Me, maybe I'm strange but I am not like a lot of guys who flit from location to location getting his Drinks at one location his Appetizer another, his Main Course here, and his Desert still another. I like the Spice of Life as much as the next person I just think it should all come from the same Spice Rack!
P.S. I have Never been Much into eating FAST FOOD! I like the Slow FULL Dining Experience! To enjoy and not miss a single Morsel of what life's pleasures has to offer, from my mate and what we can get from the world at large!

Yes my profile reads differently to most men who are trying to impress you with their toys or their physique or some other thing that is supposed to lure you and keep you spell bound. I am real and I am up front. I believe if you have something to say say it and get it over with good or bad, don't be nervous be real it cuts the tension and keeps everybody calm and not tense, so you can get to know each other and find out who each other really is.

Here's what I enjoy traveling, the mountains, the ocean, Motorcycles, 4Wheeling, Camping, Hiking anything in the Great Outdoors. The great indoors is fun too! A roaring fire, popcorn, a cool night, and a Warm Blanket! Swimming in the Ocean. Laying in a tube on a lazy river! Tell me what do you wanna do? What do you enjoy doing? Oh BTW Girls I LOVE CURVES, Twiggies just don't cut it with me! I am not looking for a perfect Woman, I am However looking for the Woman who is perfect for ME! By the way if you just want to be friends that is great. But Please don't lie to me or yourself if you say you want a relationship Be Honest about it! PLEASE let me say this if you say something in your profile "MEAN WHAT YOU SAY! AND SAY WHAT YOU MEAN" Finger prints left on someones heart should be left from the touch of tenderness not from flailing grasps in the dark!

Some of you girls need to hear this. 1 Girl said "When one man hurts a woman, it hurts all men. Keep that in mind." "When you short sighted self centered women hurt men it hurts all women!" Here's the facts: If you such women wanna know why you're still here Looking instead of out enjoying life, It is because You don,t know what you want & when you find it you keep on looking. You don't even have the common manners & decency to answer a man when he spends the time to write you! Understand Children are important but without sound parents the kids don't stand much chance. For some who say "My Children Come First" In Reality Mean As My man You Will Always Come Last & Don't Expect To Change My Mind. Then By All Means Raise Your kids. I did Mine, but count on doing it ALONE there is a reason a relationship is called a partnership, think about it! When you are done putting your kids always first yourself second & your man last you'll wake up cold & alone wondering what the hell just happened!

Notice to GOLD DIGGERS I have kicked several to the curb. Do you really wanna be next? If that is who and what you are just move on and save both of us the trouble!
This Mystery Man You Seek Does Not Exist!! So do not waste my time or yours, BE HONEST!
Yes I now know why most men only are after ONE THING! It is because of the way some women have treated them. So while You Women of that nature Die Old and Alone Please Remember Why!

Perhaps you are different from this last bunch mentioned if so I'd like to hear from you! If you read this far you must be different! ('')If you are not as comfortable in Jeans as you are in formal attire we won't Mix!

Girls do us guys a favor please if there is more than one person in your picture identify which you are! I had a 40 year old girl get madder than a wet hen because I could not tell her and her 21 year old daughter apart! Go Figure!

Go hiking or riding in the mountains. Or explore and find new things and new exciting places to go. Or even just sit and talk.