Hello,

I am looking for that someone to share that emotional chemistry that two people can share. I am hard working, kind and honest. I enjoy a quiet evening at home with a pizza or a night out on the town. I can also be a driven person. If I see something I go after it. I am a good listener and communicator. I like to travel.

How about music? Would you like to see the Boston Pops live in their outdoor amphitheatre in the summer? Did you ever listen to the 25 top rated classical symphony tunes. Did you ever marvel at the ability of the compousers of many generations before us. What were they telling us? Did they have stories?
Did you ever listen to the top 25 top rated country hits? How about Pop or Contemporary? How about Rap? OK. I agree. But music of all kinds is beautiful. (maybe some people don't like all types)

Most of us like easy going people. I am especially attracted to easy going girls. You know, the type that smile and are easy to talk and be with.

I try to enjoy a lower stress life. I like to go on vacation and strike up a conversation with strangers. I like to exchange life stories and learn about their professions, religions, families and political views. I like to be friendly. I like to walk around in the sun. Often I plan side trips and dinners. I like special resturants, where the locals go or some unique out of the way place. I like to research them by talkling with the locals. I wish I could travel more.

I like to be happy and I would like everyone to be happy. I am always a gentlemen and do what is best. I have two self sufficient parents in their 90's and two college graduaded children in their 20's. They are out of the nest. We all get together weekely for dinner. It is quite a blessing. Each generation learns from the other. Grandpa lectures about old wars, depressions, humane nature and grandson shows him how to hook up his HD camera to his computer and print pictures.

I am looking for a lady that will be a happy match. I think that means initial attration, a little wow. As time goes on there is that feeling of fitting to know someone and having a mutual good fit. Next the pair is going to need earned honesty, trust, and good communitation.

My "Relationship Needs Assessment" test indicates I believed the best kind of love comes out of a strong friendship and that I believed the intimacy of a relationship is sacred. I need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love just as I do.

In conflict resolution we should spend the time to try to find answers to the issues and not quick fixes to settle the argument temporarily. I need someone who responds to the fact that I enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing. I need someone who is happy, who had a happy upbringing, someone who will support me personally and professionally.

I believe that communication requires that you do not put up any barriers when you seek to understand the other person's thoughts and feelings. You should talk and communicate intimately and candidly.

I still work a little and I am in the process of retireing. It would go faster if I found that special girl. I am basically a happy person and satisfied with my accomplishments and contributions to our society.



Jim

For a first date the intention should be to get acquainted. One way might be to meet for a drink or coffee.