* Note... I have witness many women with alot of great potential veiw my page and choose not to say hi at the least. Please do not be shy. I have put alot of time and honesty into this profile. I have no expectations and or prerequisites. If you are not interested but have some suggestions for me, I would love to hear from you as well. Take care and I hope that you all find what you are looking for... *



First off, I am not very good at discussing myself and I find it to be harder then I think it should be. I suppose that we all have to do it though so I will begin.

My name is Jay, I am a single father of two very beautiful and special little boys. There names are Aidan and Nevan. I will talk more about them later.

My career is in the field of maintenance and engineering. I enjoy working with my hands and I am very skilled at repairing all sorts of things. I like to come up with new ideas to replace the old in order to improve efficiency and I am always looking to learn new things to help me stay on the top of my game.

I am attending MATC in January for an associates in HVAC to go along with my associates in building maintenance and care.

I do have my own transportation and I don’t mind doing the driving. (as long as the price of gas doesn’t keep making everyone I know -including me- go poor)

Now on to my children… I am extremely involved in my sons lives. They are without question my reasons for living and my best friends. Aidan is now 2 ½ years old and Nevan is now 6 months old. They are very fortunate in life as I work very hard to provide them with everything I can in life. A stable home, clothing, diapers, toys, love, compassion, education, and a lot of quality time with me. They also have a good mother. So I am not looking to replace her as there mother.

My sons are by the same woman. Her and I have tried to make it work and it has failed miserably on every attempt. We are both to blame for the failed attempts I’m sure but I can only take responsibility for my behalf. We are no longer a couple but do have some interaction at times where the children are concerned. If this makes anyone feel uncomfortable, I apologize but I do not for see it changing do to the fact that her and I provide a healthy and balance life for our children.

I -on the other hand- am unhappy in the relationship department and I am looking to fill the void within. I am very cautious and have no intentions of rushing into anything. However, if sparks fly, then so be it. I will be grateful.

I will fill this in section in more at a later time. I apologize to all of you that were looking forward to knowing more about me. If you drop me a line and ask a question, I will reply. Take care.

I do not believe that dates should be premeditated. I like to be more spontaneous then that. I like to take life’s events as they come and try to make the most of it.