I would place enormous demands on myself - demands to be clear, to be honest, to live with integrity responsive to our wants, needs, hopes and dreams - above all to honor the relationship as a mutual place of growth fed with love and attention - I would treat you like an equal a partner a lover but most importantly a person - and then I'd bend you over and spank you.

I am intelligent, funny, kind, athletic, socially conscious, adaptable, sensitive and loving.

I'm liberal in an open and accepting way towards others. I love dogs and animals, kids, nature and exercise. I am not conflict oriented. I am a communicator and very loyal to my relationships: friends, family, and partner.

I resonate to partnership, family and community. I love a hippie mentality with real world groundedness. I enjoy witty banter and silly behavior. I am easy to get along with and fluent in American Sign Language. I am a rugged athlete and a clairvoyant cuddler.

I really enjoy being warm and comfy surrounded by good friends - friends, family and community are very important!

I am gregarious and friendly to everyone. (wow BS alert)
"People don't care what you know...until they know that you care" Me

I want to help others, to be needed and useful in the world, and to play with puppies. If I ever find anyone less fortunate I want to help them too, but I don't give out spare change so don't even ask cause that's just awkward for everyone.

I like crazy, interesting, odd ball unique thinkers - I do want love but am looking for friends. I'd love a tennis buddy - activity partner - Love people who are ready to fall in love - with a person, a moment an experience - to be open and available to making and living in an emotional field of magic. No really I'm strait.

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
Anais Nin

I enjoy good, open debate, banter, etc. over phone or computer, though getting together with the right people would be the most funnerest thing. ;)

I tend to push buttons which is how I am able to type this - obviously I'm quite clever so feel free to be a dumb blond if that's your thing - it's all good. Let's just have some fun and start calling and chatting and see if we resonate and vibrate and glow in the dark!

All of life consists of energy. All of death is the circulation of that energy back into the collective to be used again - and that is the nature of God. We tend to scoff at the beliefs of the ancients. But we can't scoff at them personally, to their faces, and this is what annoys me.

I value conviction and passion but also tolerance and appreciation for diversity and difference. I know it as critical for our growth and expansion into larger and more fuller beings.

I'm all about relationships, life, the journey, etc., not that I'm opposed to working hard (hard work) to establish a foundation for enjoying life/relationship etc. But too often I've seen people make hard work/profit the whole trip rather than just the investment for the trip...

When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure" - Peter Marshall

We must not to arms be put
but rather vulnerable
our pride aside
and arms with
love held
wide

If you are interested (check face book for more pics) please hit me up for a quick walk (I love neighborhoods and looking at houses!) Something quick easy good for us and then we can see if all this great wit and banter has any relevance in the real world!

Life is nothing but a dream,
and if we are artists,
then we can create our life with love,
and our dream becomes a masterpiece of art.
Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.
--Lao-tzu

I'm not there yet
but I'm not worried about being there
the journey is here
now
where I'm at
in this breath - this moment
this awareness
that is me
opening to you
and feeling the love
that is
us

Eric Holmes
M.L. Therapist
A.S.L. Interpreter
D.D. Home Support Professional.

I'm Eric Leroy Holmes check out my facebook to get in on event calendar to join with me you friends etc pubs, bowling, jogging, movies, dinner, games etc Let me know what you think!

Yoga and meditate and massage wine movie and talk till late till our eyes heavy we fall in and out of sleep ending up snuggled together!

I don't really like official dating stuff - I find it an awkward way to meet a stranger and am never comfortable with the lack of clarity around roles - to control and pay for everything feels sexist and unequal and to suggest otherwise can offend and seem lacking in chivalrousness -
So I encourage to meet casually as equals and if there's magic in the air then proceed to mutually wine dine and woo the socks of each other -

This was just me trying to sound like I'm in the movies:
I m a long shore man with a pension for danger and a longing for trouble
I don't cotton to strangers and don't much like the looks a ya
but I'll give ya a square meal and a room
and set you on yr way first sun up -