One day I was looking for plenty of fish because I was hungry. Silly me, I looked on the internet and found this instead.
This would be me on that fateful day
I am looking for someone who will cook me dinner, clean my house, work two full time jobs and give me all her money, while I sit on my fat tush, eating bon bons and watch soap operas all day long, and be a tongue fu fighter.
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OK, so I am updating this again. What was up above was during the time I was with someone and it did not matter what was in my profile. I met someone special on PoF and we had a long-term relationship which was generally positive - but have since moved apart. So far we have stayed friendly so it is all good.
This is a guideline of sorts of qualities that am I looking for in a partner. I would expect you would have similar expectations of me. I have never met anyone that is perfect yet (even though I like to think I am in every way - j/k)... This list is the ideal of what my partner would be, and some qualities I am more flexible on than others, and rank has nothing to do with is most important:
1.) she is generally positive
2.) she is socially skilled
3.) she is clean of drug or alcohol problems (social alcohol consumption in moderation is fine)
4.) she is culturally aware
5.) she is open-minded and adventurous
6.) she is frugal and responsible
7.) she is flexible and willing to compromise
8.) she is loyal
9.) she is honest
10.) she is fun to be with
11.) she gives me space as needed, as do I
12.) she understands that love develops over time
Of course I would want someone beautiful, but I have learned a long time ago that it is the inner beauty that is of more interest to me than the outside. If you have a ready smile and a pleasant personality, I am interested in you... whether anything comes from it romantically or not.
