I have been on here for awhile now and I think I should just say what I'm looking for...I want to be with a man who either has his kids living with him or is very involved in their lives. I have a 10 year old, so I have a few years of parenting ahead of me and it would be great to be with someone with the same situation. I am not into casual encounters, I have to love the person I'm intimate with. I like to rent movies and have popcorn and a cuddle on the couch. I like to cook but enjoy sharing the cooking. I am very giving and helpful but I am not wanting to be a taken advantage of. I enjoy outings for the kids and for the adults. I don't want someone who drinks every day or even every weekend...occasionally is fine...no alcoholics plz...no pot smokers or recovering addicts...sorry to all who are clean and sober and recovering but I have done my part already and want someone who loves life and is not recovering from it. I want a man with intelligence who enjoys boardgames. I love camping but I suck at putting up tarps and such and would love a guy who can do the outdoor stuff too. I have put on some weight and welcome guys who may need to shed some lbs. too, we can shoot some hoops, go walk around the park or go for a hike. There is so much i want to convey but I think I said enough for now.
P.S. Hair is not important to me, you can be bald, grey whatever I don't care, you just need to be kind and laugh at my jokes...
Hope to hear from my match.....

I think go for a walk and chat and decide together whether we want to do anything else after we meet.