I am looking for a lady who understands, like I do, that mental intimacy is the baseline for a wonderful relationship. We both should be looking at this as chemistry driven and with no expectations at the beginning other than getting to know each other and seeing if there is something there to build on. A sensible lady for a sensible man for a sensible lasting relationship. That should be easy to find, I think. If you are curious send me a note.

With that said, we all have that special look we are after, that special chemistry we strive to find, the passion we crave, the amazement of knowing we have found that special someone who we know is THE one. The butterflies when we first meet, you know what I am speaking of I know. I guess you could call it the WOW factor. The anxious optimism of the first meeting and the internal smile that when the eyes first meet you don't act too silly or goofy so as not to let on that you are somewhat smitten at first sight.

Those things above are what all of us are looking for, in our own way of course. It is out there, somewhere,I know it.

A little more about me: Grew up on a farm in PA; moved west only knowing 3 people in CA; am a determined, confident, driven person professionally; have a quick wit; love traveling and have done a lot of it, and we can talk about all those places when we communicate; have 2 boys, 15-13, that I have 1/2 time; can talk with anyone; know a little about a lot, so conversation is easy; have a BS in Education with a concentration in Accounting; taught in a prison a long time ago (my actual name is: 49587 lol); very passionate and affectionate in a relationship, touchy, feely type, if that makes sense; and much much more to speak about when we talk.

We all like a lot of the same things it seems from reading all the profiles, and there are a lot of them out there to read. The key is to find the person whom you feel comfortable with, but not like an old shoe just yet, and want to have the chemistry which makes things feel great inside. If you don't make the mental connection, it just isn't going to work. Chemistry, compatibility, charisma, compassion, character (not being one), and feeling complete is what I am looking for and will find eventually.

I am not a serial dater and would like to find the one LADY who wants to see if WE are the right one for each other.

If you are intrigued a little or a lot, let me know and we can go from there. I am much better looking in person, I just don't photograph well, and my mom didn't tell me, but you will have to be the judge and jury.
Best wishes in your search.

The first date depends on the person, but somewhere comfortable where each person can relax and enjoy the time together getting to know the other.