SYNOPSIS:
I am divorced w/ children, Pagan, Sapiosexual (means I find your mind/personality much sexier than your physical & yes this means I've been attracted to more than just your average heterosexual male), Polyamorous, Dorky, Nerdy, Artistic, Smart-mouthed, Stubborn, Blue-Collar, Hood livin', Twang talkin', Lone Star drinkin', tobacco smokin', Mota tokin' with 10 tats, a pierced Left nostril, Bridge & Septum!

I pretty much feel like a foreigner most of the time...amongst family & friends & my "own culture" in general. The "Star of Lakshmi" attempting to fit into a rather circular world w/o too much chipping of my points.

I'm the type of woman that celebrates her birthday for the entire week leading up to her birthday by getting together with friends, family, pals, etc. & eating, DRINKING, dancing & just all around merriment with my birth fest culminating in some big shin-dig (i.e. a huge party or a big show). I say this because I realized that I don't wanna be with someone that can't or won't be willing to be right there enjoying the festivities at my side at least a few nights out of the week. If ya can't, then we'll have issues later on & if ya won't, well, that's an issue right at the start...Can you keep up?


What Am I Looking For? That person that likes me just as I am w/o trying to edit censor or change me!

STILL READING'?

The best part of who I am is my children...my youngest child (she is 4)lives with me full-time, while I co-parent my older 3 (he is 16 & the girls are 10 & 11) with their father (& step-mother) whom they reside with full time.

If ya don't like kids...stop! GO AWAY!!!
If you're looking to procreate with me...STOP! GO AWAY!!!

I have ceased production (by choice!).

If you're a parent, as well, then know I'll respect your children & the relationship you have with them & their other parent. I can't possibly expect this w/o being able to offer it in return.

"Life affords no greater responsibility, no greater privilege, than the raising of the next generation." -C. Everett Koop

I am also the mom of 3 furbabies...my cats,(JennyLynn & GloLauria), my dog (TristaPrincess), oh, & a red eared turtle, BuckleyRed...recent addition, a house mouse that the kitties caught & my daughters named JumperJumpsAlot.


I am NOT SKINNY/THIN!!!!! One more time for those of ya livin' on the slow side of the mental race...I AM NOT SKINNY/THIN!!! I am quite comfy in my own skin & love the Rubenesque curves that I'm blessed with. If ya don't like Thick/Chubby Women, or take issue with the type then, please, don't waste my time or yours!

"FAITH SEES THE FLOWER IN THE SEED!" This is kinda like my mantra for life.

I'm divining my own life path, spiritually, romantically & otherwise...& not inclined to make concessions, but I'm quite capable of compromising or simply agreeing to disagree! I wouldn't want to be around someone I was always in accordance with...ugh, how boring.

I have to mention that I do not believe monogamy to be natural to humans. That being said, I have, though, maintained a monogamous relationship on more than one occasion. I believe that a relationship is a living entity on it's own & the dynamic of it is quite fluid...the egos of the people involved are where possible obstacles come from & when they are truly aware & open it is simply what the people in it make it/need it/want it to be. My preference in a partner would be some one that shares my belief to some point. This doesn't mean that I don't believe in the possibility of there being "one" that complements the most...like any good "hopeful romantic", I absolutely do. I am well aware though that devotion & faithfulness don't go hand in hand with fidelity!

I am simply me...the best and worst of whoever/whatever that is supposed to be! I revel in the "perfectness" of my flaws & the progression past them.

I'm not overly domestic. I love to cook, but don't often. I clean, but am quite untidy...I revel in clutter...books, paints & brushes, toys, pens, paper/tablets, clothes/shoes, crafty type pieces of all kinds & lists of list of lists of things I want/need/have to do/see/achieve! I am always up for some form of personal growth and art.....art in all forms, or social outings, or sleep...:oP I also prefer people that tend to fall into this category as well...people that are overly neat/tidy/organized or appear to always be flawless creep me out!

Currently in the market for a new form of employment...& no, I'm not looking for someone to pay my bills, take care of me & mine, etc. I manage just fine! Industrious woman that I am, I take up odd-jobs to make sure I got my bases covered 'til something more reliable comes along. I prefer to work to feed the passions that make me feel alive...I am not a work for the sake of work person.

I used to work at Whole Foods Market. Yes, I do believe some of the rhetoric that the company I worked for spouts!
Please don't tell me how darn expensive they are...get out & vote/get involved & change the way our government treats small farmers vs. big conglomerate farms!!!
No, I am not an activist, but I make an effort!

I am trying hard to make me a better me & the world by extension!
"There's only one corner of the universe that you can be certain of improving and that's your own self" -Aldous Huxley

I write poetry, I do spoken word, I paint, I sing, I am slowly learning to play a bunch of instruments (ask me for the list if you're so inclined), I wanna make my own music, I have plans/goals/aspirations & am knocking 'em out a baby-step at a time!

I Don't Know what I want in any exact way...I really believe it's one of those things that ya only really Know it when it's right in front of you & up to that point it's just a guess & the guess maybe nothing like what finally makes ya catch your breath!
I like dorky guys! Geeks Rock even more.
I am a sucker for a person that can make me laugh.
I am drawn to people that can broaden my outlook in some way.
I like nice guys, but not the ones that are so nice they let others walk on them.
I prefer guys that like to go out at least a couple of times a week. I'm not a homebody & even though I have stretches where I prefer to stay in, it's not regular or extensive.
I would prefer guys that like to have a FEW drinks when they go out, 'cuz I do.
I'd prefer a smoker, 'cuz I do.
I like guys that love to try & step out of their comfort zone.

I really don't think you can answer this question...it all depends on the 2 individuals involved & what they might like. I am open to anything (this is not an exaggeration), but would much prefer something that allows us to actually spend the time getting acquainted.

I guaran-damn-tee you that the further from perfection you are, the more I'm gonna like ya!

I have 3 rules that I try hard to adhere to...

1. Try Everything At Least Once!
2. Treat Everyone The Same Way I want To Be Treated!!
but mostly
3. Do What Thou Wilt!!!

You should message me if you'd like to/would like to interact with a sensual, sexual, flirty, hard-headed, smart-mouthed, witty, outgoing, bashful, dorky, Independent woman that appreciates having her door opened, her smile complimented, her words listened to & occasionally having her ass smacked! (this is a very, very short list of descriptives that qualify!!!!!)

Oh & if ya managed to get this far...my pics were purposely picked to rep my personality, not my appearance. I'm the one behind the camera most of the time, so they really do me no justice. I'd rather get your attention based on all the rest anyway....I get hit on enough for the T & A. :oD


"If you always do what interests you, at least one person is pleased." -- Katharine Hepburn


I REALLY ENJOY MAKING NEW ACQUAINTANCES, SO PLEASE FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE ME OR WHATEVER...I HAVE TO STRESS THOUGH THAT CYBERING & THINGS OF THAT NATURE AREN'T OF ANY INTEREST TO ME, AS WELL AS MEETING MARRIED MEN WHO DON'T HAVE THEIR WIFE'S PERMISSION!!


space my /radcat