What are the women my age looking for? I have a good job, a single father putting one girl through college and paying support as I should for my 15 year old living with my ex-wife. I go to school at night to finalize my dream of recording music in the studio. Few years left but attainable. I have to create to survive. I still have time to spend with you.

I don't have the six pack any more and am working my way to decent shape. I walk daily with my dog and exercise. Living blocks from the beach helps.

I have Midwestern values and believe you are my equal. We should share and talk about everything. Intimacy to me, is like air. I need it to survive. Kissing and holding hands are what I want in a relationship. Walking along and talking while we hold each other's hand at 70 is a goal for me. Falling asleep in each other's arms watching while TV is my bliss.

Not rich, sorry no Mercedes. I rent my place. Creating wealth is not important. Creating a relationship seems like a better idea. With the banks crashing in around their greed..I believe it is a message to care about each other and drop the chase for a material world.

I live in Carlsbad Village, blocks from the sea. Spoiled but would like to pass it along to a woman that knows it takes two to make things work and Prince Charming is imprisoned in the paper back novel you once read. You know a man can love you and treat you as an equal. Be happy for your triumphs and hold you when you are struggling, then tell you he loves you. Your love together is the cement of the relationship.

I won't apologize for not being perfect, body/mind/spirit. I can tell you I try every day and have made sure the last thing I say to my kids is "I Love You".... And treat every moment as if that would be the last time I see them again....

If you like what you see email and I promise I will be truthful. The picture is bad and I have lost a bit more weight. Please be truthful with yourself don't settle for me and have enough time to return an email or phone call. I am honest and expect the same from you. A Platonic relationship is not what I seek. I tried and failed. We can be friends on the way to our ultimate goal. It takes two to make a relationship work. We both gotta be in it together. Finally..please have a heart that is open to love again and know that is what you truly do want...

If you need to pass by..I wish you Peace and hope you find the happiness you seek.

I can't do the coffee interview. I would ask for a walk along the surf and a talk to see if we want to talk more over lunch or dinner together.