Looking for independent woman to enjoy social activities with like hiking, motorcycling, dining, hanging out, etc. Not necessarily looking for long term relationship but very open to possibilities. I am 47 y.o. attorney and director for a local $1 billion public charity. Lifelong student of philosophy, economics. Degrees in law, business admin. Certified mediator. Direct communicator. Loving, compassionate, rational, physically fit and active, appreciative of alternative perspectives, great humor, passion, empowering others. Self-aware and other-aware, looking for someone who sees the similarities in people more than the differences, with similar level of self-awareness and willingness to examine self and explore life's possibilities. Life is too short for it not to be amusing and fun! Great communication leads to great relationships, looking for someone who is willing to express themselves and let me do the same. I smoke cigars occasionally, but never indoors. I like to be with people who are interested in personal and professional growth. Not that any of us lack insecurities, but confidence and willingness to be vulnerable yet also strong a huge plus. Strange for a lawyer, but "right" and "wrong" have very little place in my world. Much more interested in what you feel and why. I'm a constantly adapting person and appreciate others who are not rigid, but willing to grow, willing to learn, willing to teach, willing to share. Ability to receive and offer affection crucial. Higher education a plus but not necessary. Great conversations don't start with resumes or credentials! Secure, strong, independent, smart, good sense of humor, enjoy lots of outdoor activity, adaptive and self-reflective? Can you tolerate Blues music and the Chicago Cubs? If so, I'd love to chat with you!

A good first date is something fun, whether that's related to your interests or mine. I love doing new things. Must include an opportunity to chat and get to know each other better. A walk, a dinner, a ballgame are all great opportunities to explore each other's personality and see if there may be a connection. Love going for motorcycle rides that take me to new places or beautiful familiar ones just right for a little hike in the mountains or an experimental meal at the local restaurant.