I HAVE DECIDED TO TAKE A BREAK...BEST WISHES.

I am seeking a fun loving woman who is somewhat athletic or energetic to pursue dating and life activities such as golf, theatre, live music, dancing, day trips, boating/swimming, motorcycling, biking, etc....to summarize, I am very active.

I am a practicing Christian man with middle of the road values and political views. I attend church regularly, but am not preachy or judgmental. We are each responsible for our relationship with God..or if one chooses.. not. I let the preachers preach and God to judge..I do not have the time, knowledge/wisdom or desire to do either. I am firm in my beliefs and seek both knowledge and wisdom so that I may become the best person I can possibly be...not only for God, but for my family, friends, humanity and for that special woman who may/will become my last great love.

I am considered wholesome, but still mischievous...a 'bad boy turned good' would be accurate and appropriate. I live a bit faster than most our age...life is too short to be wasted on the couch watching others live. I enjoy an occasional movie at home and cuddlecouch experiences...but typically a date involves going/doing/participating. PDA is a way of life and I am openly affectionate. I enjoy holding hands while walking and slow dancing in public..even on the street corner or while standing in line for an event.

I love to cook and enjoying the event of preparing the meal together and dining on the deck while watching a sunset if the timing is right..if not, candlelight and soft music is preferred as I am a steadfast romantic.

I own a nice home and am respected in my community...as are my children...yes, I have kids...and they are amazing! They go to G-Ma's each and every weekend which allows me to play music, golf, ride my bike, travel, invest in a relationship..or just run amok! lol And no, I do not need a babysiter or Mother figure...we are all doing just fine thank you. :) I seek a monogamous, fun filled, emotionally rewarding relationship and hope to fall in love...it is not a mission.

I am self employed and own a small, yet fairly well known manufacturing co. I am a well traveled professional musician having performed with a number of famous acts. I play multiple instruments, sing, and compose music. I am also writing a book titled 'Live to Meet Again'....it is about living well to enjoy the eternal life, my walk while loving a person dying...and the life experience in general. I am also a contractor...a remodeling specialist...a conundrum of blue and white collar worlds.

I have friends that range from famous and fabulously wealthy, to salt of the earth farmers scratching a living from the dirt...I appreciate them all.

I was President of my Country Club and have served on committees in the school system. I perform in various ways of community service and enjoy service to others.

I am a positive thinker...I enjoy and embrace life's simple pleasures as well as an occasional fast track adventure. I prefer sharing life's experiences rather than the alternative. After all, " Life is better when shared". Serious inquiries must be 'reasonably fit'(not seeking Barbie as I am not Ken..or glamour girls) and be open to everything from the little black dress and a night at the theatre to motorcycle rides or a drag race...as well as the golf course. If you don't play golf..perhaps be willing to learn as I am a very patient coach.

Feel free to contact me.. Rhoadsters@aol.com and become acquainted via conventional e-mail...it is more efficient.

No drugs, excessive drinking (social drinks are fine) or smokers... thank you.

I would like to meet for coffee for the first encounter at which point we would have have a 'chemistry check' and see if an in person attraction occurs.

Honesty is paramount and our profiles should match in core, but not necessaritly in all areas. After all, we are all different and unique.