Hi! I'm just a normal (ok, not SO normal) guy, in my early 30's, I have an awesome job, a car, and just bought my first house last year. I love sarcastic wit and humor, loves animals, I have a cat with no name (does 'Kitty' count?), an average build - I like to take care of myself and TRY and stay in shape but no, no washboard stomach here, hazel eyes, black hair, mischievous smile, and am a kid at heart.

I try and get out when I can, but I'll be honest, ever since I bought my house I've been forced to pretty much chill out at home due to money-saving measures. Of course I have enough resources to go out when I want (aka a date with you), but when thats not happening - I'm usually at home. The NFL, having friends over, TV, and video games keep me sane and save me money at the same time.

I am NOT here for a 'hook up' or a FWB. I want a LTR, and will hopefully get married to my best friend some day.

Yes, I'm a man. I love sex. But I want kick-ass, awesome sex for the rest of my life, not one night.

I'm fun and laid back - just looking for that partner in crime to share my life with. I'm perfectly happy being single, but I also know that when that special someone is next to you, everything in life is that much better. Besides, I believe life is an adventure, and adventures are always better when you can share them with someone else at your side.

I'm looking for someone that I can be myself around, that gets my wierd humour, and makes me smile. Intelligence is sexy in and of itself, as is a big heart, and someone that can be true to themselves. I'm looking for my equal, someone who gives me a run for my money and challenges me to be a better person because of it.

I work in IT/IS for a health care company, and I love what I do - although work is first and foremost just to pay the bills and finance my vacations.

Some fun facts about me...
* The first time I ever left the United States, I traveled to Europe, by myself, to go on vacation with a couple of friends I had never actually met before. I had the time of my life. I love to travel!
* I've always been told I'm a very good kisser.
* I have one tattoo and one piercing.
* I have a sublime sense of humour, and I can make anyone laugh.
* I play paintball with a nationally sponsored team. We travel all over the US every year to attend various events. I love paintball because it gets me out doors and is great excercise.
* I'm living proof of Men's Intuition.
* I like to touch and be touched. My girlfriends may be given neck, back, hand, and foot messages (along with any other requests they might have). That's not to say I cant keep my hands to myself or that I like to be hanged on. There is a time and place for everything.
* I'm very artistic, I like to sketch, paint, and make things.
* I play a mean guitar.
* I love almost any kind of music, except for rap and country, and I've even found a few of those songs I don't mind. Old school 80's metal rules my heart - if you love Iron Maiden, you should'nt hesitate to message me NOW.
* I am open and honest to a fault. If you ask me if you look fat in that dress or if I like that color, you WILL get an honest answer. I might get decked, but the truth was served! That doesnt mean I don't know the meaning of tact, however.
* I like women that are Women. Confidence, sensuality, and sexuality are huge turn-on's for me. I don't care if you should be on the cover of a magazine or not. If you take care of yourself, have curves and love them, then I love them too. I must say that there is my personal distiction between healthy, attractive curves and something... much more. If I need to save someone from hitting the floor for example, I need to actually lift them.
* I consider myself spiritual, but am not to keen on organized religion.
* You want to talk philosophy, history, or science (or any other topic) - I'm your man.
* So far, I've only dated women younger than I am. However, I am completely open to dating anyone - age is only a number.
* Most of my friends are in their 20's.
* While the thought of starting a family and having children is something I'm completely open to, given a choice - I'd rather not start a relationship if children are already present.
* I'm a romantic. Chivalry is not dead. You will have doors opened for you, my coat across your shoulders when cold, I won't hesitate to carry you up a few flights of stairs after a wild night out, and a hand or an arm (among other things) whenever you need them.

So there are a few highlights. If you want to know more, all you have to do is ask!

I have a 'My Space' page... /tadholio
I have some more pictures and some of my artwork up there if your that bored. :)

I'm partial to just about anywhere we can talk without having to shout. Drinks somewhere, a walk around a lake, a comedy club, or heaven forbid, a bite to eat at a little cafe.