I am seeking my soul mate, my friend, my lover and my oasis. I am a warm, kind, witty intelligent woman. I am divorced and have a teen age daughter living with me. I am not into games or treating people with disrespect. I work for a government welfare agency and love my job as I have a lot of compassion for people. I enjoy a power walk each day and have done pilates and yoga. I believe that inner peace in reached through forgiveness and letting go of past hurts and grudges. I want to give love and receive love at 100%.

A first date is an introduction of who I am. This is where I present myself and take pride in my dress and make up. A first date gives me butterflies in my tummy but soon after I relax. A first date is not the Spanish inquisition is a time for a gentle introduction of likes and dislikes but mostly to find out if there will be a second date. First dates are fun at times and hard at other times. In conclusion first dates are a polite face to face meeting which can lead to a second date or may not lead to anything at all.