My friend, Stephanie says that I should go to bars instead of joining match and doing internet dating. Can anyone tell me which is the better of the two: internet dating or bar dating? Does anyone even read these things, or are you just browsing through pics? Do you do drugs? What kind of dumb question is that? How do they expect a person to answer that if they did? "Yes, I do. A lot?" By the way, the girls in my pics are just friends and not ex-girlfriends.

I'd much rather meet someone through a female friend, but none of them have friends that are either single or sane. I generally try to stray away from dating anyone I meet at a bar or a club, and I don't go to either venue that often anyway. I hope this works cause I've changed it 50 times already, and I've only just joined.

These are the qualities I'm looking for in a woman in no particular order: honesty, intelligence, good listener, good communicator, spontaneous, open minded, strong will and character, independent, good sense of humor, passionate, affectionate, family orientated, animal lover, and loyal. I know it's a long list and there may be some things that I might have not put, but that should give you a pretty good idea of what I'm looking for in the opposite sex. One last thing though, I hate games. Be upfront and just tell me what's on your mind.

I try to be straight forward as much as possible, and I like a woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to let me know. I'm not looking for a robot or someone that is my perfect match. What I'm looking for is someone that I will connect with intellectually, spiritually, and someone that will challenge me in all the best ways possible. I want someone that will accept me for the man I was, the man I am, and the man I want to be.

Lastly, your heart should never settle for less than what you deserve.

This is a poem that I wrote that's been previously published called The First Stone:

I, who cannot see,
blinded by ignorance

I, who cannot speak,
muted by shame

I, who cannot hear,
deaf by selection

I, who am without sin,
cast the first stone
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What if we all acted like we do when we're with our friends or when we're home alone on a first date? How many of us would get a second date or finish the first date for that matter? Dating should be easier. Fill out this application to apply for the position. Turn it in at the front desk and someone will get back to you. And if you're round all over, that is not A FEW EXTRA POUNDS. It's like me saying that I'm SLIGHTLY ASIAN. ALSO, I have a lot more tattoos than I was allowed to show on here. I have my entire back to halfway down my butt tattooed. If you're not into tattoos then I'll just laser my entire body before our first date. y a h o o f4horsemanracing