Truly sensitive...Have been back in NJ more than a year and it is certainly time ...to find someone special... I will be here open minded and hearted until that time when magic appears...yes I still believe in " M A G I C " of love...I am easy going, Honest , trustworthy, and caring...Open minded...adventurous..more than willing to meet you at least half way in whatever we choose...I am devoted, faithful and family oriented with the integral qualities that make up a great relationship..In other words a real down to earth man who loves nature , the outdoors, and sharing all the beauty with a woman who appreciates it . ...I work hard for what I need and want..Have no expectations...but I do have hopes that Love still exists...I have a philosophy that has been a very important part of my character that I live by and believe.....it is this...." I am not in this world to live up to your expectations.....and you are not in this world to live up to my expectations.....I am I...and...you are you...and if by chance we find each other....that is BEAUTIFUL " I hope our dreams come true and we find that which we deserve...LOVE straight from our hearts..or a great bunch of fun getting to know each other....I have been reading so many profiles and have come to realize...most are similar...Ladies ...I am real and so are you...if there is an attraction on any plane...let's explore the possibilities...our very future starts now...LOL.., and those who have been hurt having gotten involved with separated men who were deceitful...I always tell it like it is, honesty has always been an inherant part of my character, Please learn to trust your hearts, although they were broken, remember mine was too...I don't want to spend hours at a time searching here,would rather share life , so if you like what you read...please let me know.I am willing to initiate a beginning, but unless we sense a real desire to connect through real communication...and that means shared... LOL Ben

A first date should be sharing time getting to talk straight from our hearts...letting our hair down ..having a nice glass of wine... or a cup of coffee...and finding out if our interests and chemistry are there...Or willing to do whatever you would like...adventures to just taking a long ride , enjoying nature and each other....