Sometimes my IM works and sometimes it doesnt. So, if you IM me and I dont respond, you will just have to send me a regular message!


I am busy, busy, busy. Work, fun, family life. Just want to meet people and see what happens. I'm pretty much open to anything that is fun (and legal!). So I guess we will see!

Update: I have been on this site about two months now and wow! it's been crazy! I meant everything I said in the first part of my profile, but damn, does that I mean I just want to hook-up? No, not really! I am fun and spontaneous, and Im not necessarily looking for the "one" right now, but I dont want to just give myself away either! If you can understand that logic, then perfect, contact me. Also, I am in no way an insecure person, but this whole idea of checking peoples pics out and deciding if they are hot enough, is rather daunting! (But I know I do it too! lol!)My point is, I know I am beautiful, confident, sexy and a fun and loyal person. But I am also curvy and proud of it, so if you are not attracted to that, than do not contact me. I hate feeling insecure and that has actually been driving me crazy! You really dont know how you are going to click with someone until you meet in person, so I believe it is really hard to judge someone from their pics. I obviously want someone attractive too, but humor, intelligence, wittiness and open-mindedness are all very important to me as well. And yes, I do smoke (outside), so again if you cant deal with that, then dont! I dont know if adding this to my profile will help or hinder me, but since I am just looking to meet new people for now- I figured I'd be honest. Im already tired of the nsa offers! lol! So, those are the new rules- lets see what happens now!!