I am looking for a fun, adventuresome, laid-back guy to hang out with and possibly date. No couch potatoes, no mama's boys, no losers, no multi-kid/multi baby-mama dads. Dont get me wrong, kids are great, but I like to be spontaneous, and lets face it, lotsa lil ones can be tough. I am a mother of an 9 year old boy. He is with his father about half the time so I have plenty of time for a new friend. I am very independent, have a decent job, and enjoy my solitude. I am NOT a girly-girl but clean up pretty nice for the right occasion.

If you are looking for a barbie doll, I'm definitely NOT her. I am not a skinny girl. I am curvy and proud of it. No, not fat. Normal. I'm a medium-framed, muscular size 8-10 and I am NOT ashamed of my body. Being fit has nothing to do with being thin and I wouldn't want to anyway. I have skinny (scrawny) friends who are weak and cold all the time. I prefer to be strong and sexy. I am really disgusted by today's society and what it's done to our perception of beauty. Hopefully you haven't fallen for it. Besides, who wants to snuggle up to a skeleton at night? Also, I have scars from my various adventures, nothing too bad, not on my face, but I am not flawless. I usually have some kind of injury, bruise, skinned knee, mosquito bite, etc, from doing something fun outside. I'm looking for a tall, broad-shouldered man with some meat on his bones. Someone that I can stand next to and not feel like Amazon Woman.

I am a very intimate person once I'm comfortable with someone. I like touching, kissing, giving massages (and receiving them, of course). I like to snuggle but when it's time to sleep I need my own space or I get too hot. I sleep with the window open even in winter and a fan blowing constantly.

I read. Yes books. Mostly Sci-fi and Historical Fiction but the occasional trashy romance has it's purpose. Some of my favorite authors are Steven Erickson, James Clavell, Anne McCaffrey, Stephen King (of course). I like action movies, with lots of gunfire and explosions, martial arts movies, stupid comedy, and suspense. I love Quentin Tarantino movies. Not so much into chick-flicks and slasher/horror movies.
I don't really watch TV much. I don't have cable because I'm hardly ever home so I can't justify paying for it. I get one channel with my rabbit ears (old school, yo) so sometimes I watch House, which is a great show. But most TV sucks. Too many commercials, brainwashing, and canned imperialism. Reality TV is the STUPIDEST thing ever. I get Netflix and have been watching some TV shows like Weeds, My Name is Earl, and the best show ever, Battlestar Galactica.

I mostly listen to heavy metal and classic rock, but I enjoy other genres such as reggae and blues. I've also had to expand my musical mind a bit because I sing karaoke and I needed to build up my repertoire. I know karaoke is a dorky thing to be into but I'm good at it and I like the rush of getting up on the stage.

I like trying new things and I need to be challenged. I'm into mystery and adrenaline. I'm not afraid of much, but when I find something that scares me, I want more and more, until I'm not scared anymore. That's what I love so much about snowboarding. I'm good at it, I can ride pretty much anywhere and keep up with the boys, but every now and then I still scare myself, which is what keeps it interesting. That may or may not make sense, but whatever.

So, I'm not really looking for anything serious right now. I'm honestly just bored and want to meet some new people. I don't really do the one night stand thing but I do enjoy sex. I'd like to be friends first, though, because I really don't want to have sex unless there's SOME kind of a connection or spark. If it develops into something long term it will be because I lost track of time, not because that's what I'm after.

I am not a single mom looking for a meal ticket or a new baby-daddy! Just had to say that because I've met a lot of guys (arseholes) who think single moms are desperate. I doing just fine, thanks, and I get along great with my ex.

I have a sick sense of humor and can be pretty sarcastic at times. I enjoy inappropriate jokes and all things politically incorrect. I'm a bit cynical as well, which to me, is the same thing as being a realist. No sugar-coated silver linings for me. It is what it is and people need to deal with it. I hate whiners, perpetual victims, and stupidity in general. I realize we all have our moments, but sometimes you just have to suck it up and get on with things. Also, some people need to learn when to keep their mouths shut!

I hate cliche' crap like "I'm really a down to earth guy" because seriously, we are ALL on Earth, obviously. I don't like insecurity, jealousy, and overly controlling behavior. If you can't carry on an intelligent conversation, or you read about my interests and we have nothing in common, why waste your time? Also, please be a whole, emotionally stable person with self esteem intact. I am not into fixing people and I don't want to "complete" you.

Please dont message me if:
You have more than 2 children,
You have a crazy ex,
You are addicted to porn,
You have no job,
You live with your mother,
You are missing teeth,
You don't know the definition of "personal hygiene".

Sorry to seem so picky, but a girl's gotta have some standards, ;)

Oh, and dont let the "Do you do drugs" question scare you away. I smoke a little weed on occasion but that's all. It doesn't control my life, I am a responsible, upstanding member of society (such as it is) and I go to work every day and pay my bills on time. It's such a shame that marijuana gets put in the same category as all other drugs. Ok, so that's all cleared up now, right? LOL! At least I'm honest.



So if you want to know more, message me.

I like surprises so YOU decide what we'll do. Hopefully it's something exciting. Something along the lines of flying a kite in a lightning storm, or milking rattlesnakes, or cliff diving, would be cool. Ok, maybe just coffee the first time. But most importantly, we decide if there's a spark.....or not. If not we can move on with our lives. I'm not really looking for a neverending email relationship so let's meet!