well .... i guess i never filled this out LoL .. anyway about me i am 6'5 .. hazel eyes to be honest i weigh in around 300... not thrilled with my weight but i am who i am. well more about me .. i like shooting pool, checking out local bands on the weekends and or local DJ's ..... i have a hell of a sense of humor and i am very easy to get along with as well as very laid back also at times foul mouthed .. fast hard driving .... smoking, drinking, raising hell type . well i drink socially. . . i been told i am just a big teddy bear lol .. so take it as i am very cuddly? lol ... and i am very caring and have a heart of gold ... but here is the bottom line . i am looking for someone who is gonna be real with me ... i dont want the type who tells me ... what they think i wanna hear .. i want the type that tells me ... how it is ... and i will definitely be honest with you as well .... i dont really have many preferences .. but there is always that connection or spark to be made ... the feeling of ... looking into the other peron's eyes or kissing them ... and you just forget the rest of the world exists for that moment of time ... i am looking for someone that is caring and honest and like to show affection .. i am the type that loves to feel wanted as well as i like to show someone how much they are wanted and appreciated by me ...but also a healthy sexual side to them wouldnt hurt lol ... someone open minded .. willing to try new things .. someone that knows what they want and what they dont want ... someone that is totally in touch with themselves ... remember ladies ... us men cant read minds lol ... unlike how we wish we could but we cant. well i guess that sums it up right now .... so if you like what you reading .. and you wanna know more .... you know what to do... UPDATE!!! ..... changing what i am looking for here .. i will go with hangout .. i have met alot of people and there has been no connection or not enough feeling to start a relationship based upon .... so in the meantime of my search .. looking for friends to hang out with .. get to know .if anything should come out of it .. thats great if not .. then we have a new friend LoL ... and as far as hanging out .. take it how you want to take it .... ... and remember always be open and honest about things ... and there will be no problems .... thats the way i am and thats how i expect you to be as well .... beating around the bush . dropping little hints here and there ... does not work .. so also be straight up and forward .. no time go guessing games... ... no high hopes no expectations and no promises that one cant keep and no one gets disappointed or hurt and just have fun ... ***** May 18th Update!!!!!!!***** The pictures of me in the Tuxedo are not from My wedding lol ... they are from my Brothers wedding ... this is for anyone that has misunderstood i am still a Single Man!