I am looking for a quality person with whom I may befriend and possibly date. Further information and a truer reflection of character reside within me and remains to be seen. I am not a waste of time for many. So if you become interested, contacting me is the only way to decide. I hope my few photos are enough to begin. It shouldn't be about looks anyway, righ, and so I may be wrong in real terms. What of it? I admit to going for looks, but with maturation, I have expanded to a broader definition of attraction. I want balance within the above mentioned context. For me, it's not about the list designed soley to satisfy peer approval anymore. There's only so much money to spend (if you have money) and so many people to impress with your degrees and background (if you have either good enough to impress). Try to treat me well, as I will be trying to treat you well out of the gate. Let's see if overall chemistry exists between us and start as friends. By the way, I was told by a friend that two people, who are together, must have common interests to be happy. I disagree. What do you think?

For my first date, I would consider too much thinking and planning inappropriately obtuse and aggressive(though some may consider hang gliding or bungy jumping exciting for a first date, i don't. how do you get to know someone, while dangling from your ankles at the end of a giant rubber band?). Assuming we have already met for a quasi-date of coffee or tea, my approach for a first date would be to have dinner at a cozy restaurant. The place should not be stuffy, but have good food, service and atmosphere. I like little ethnic places in the city. Anyway, the evening is open for many possiblities depending on how well the date has progressed through dinner. The main point is to allow for communication in a relaxed way and to have some fun.