Sometimes life's most beautiful things are not seen with our eyes; But felt within our hearts. Hi, I'm a 6'3" divorced father currently residing in Chicago seeking companionship. I'm looking for an outgoing, open, and honest BBW Who's a great kisser to share a part of my life with, height unimportant (I can provide step stools) I love to have fun as I'm rarely serious If you love to laugh you won't be disappointed. If you are interested and would like to know more about me, please feel free to ask me anything...I am a very open and easy person to talk with! I am also an extremely loving and passionate man! I have a very intense side to me, which to some can be somewhat intimidating. I would like to find someone who can periodically meet or exceed that intensity. If you don't have to question that statement, you probably have what I'm talking about. Please understand this level of intensity can be a VERY good thing in the right situations! I am seeking a warm and easygoing woman who cares very much for those in her life...someone who enjoys moving forward and making each day the best it can be. I admire those who are passionate, someone of strong character and is genuine and thoughtful in nature. I long to find someone who would like to nurture and preserve a respectful, romantic, and very special friendship. If you enjoy learning and growing through life, and are looking for something real, I would be happy to hear from you. I am in search of someone who has the love of Christ in her life.. I am looking for someone that I can be a friend with first. My ideal woman is of strength (spiritually, mentally & emotionally). A woman who is self confident in who she is and who she is in my life. I am aware of the human being as a whole being. I am looking for a woman who can think for herself, A woman with high values and ideals,who is strong enough to act on her desires and share her passion with me must be playful, love intimacy, being touched and carressed, holding hands, hugs and kissing.
I know that the foundation of every strong relationship is honesty, sharing, caring, and a willingness to be your most vulnerable self with your partner. It’s not having secrets and it’s all about understanding that there is no score card to calculate who’s ahead, no place for selfish desires. Intimacy is fostered by letting down all your defenses, all your walls, and being authentic.

Paying attention to the spiritual subtleties, the sensual urgings, the physical desires, the emotional nuances, and the unique complexities that make up each person. I truly believe in the value of communication & Touch as a healing property and as a symbol of affection and grace between two people.

I am a totally straight male and I really get into pleasing a female. I believe in totally pleasing my mate in every way. I know if I please her, I will most certainly be rewarded. I am considerate to her wants and needs and I derive great pleasure from seeing her smile. Let me Seduce you, pamper you, rock your world, soulfully connect and I will be one happy man. I am a Man that when you come home after a long hard day (at work or shopping) Will greet you with a Giant hug & some munchies. I am that man that will go the extra mile to put a smile on that gorgeous face. I am the man that knows that healthy relationships take work, and that they are a balance of self and partner.I am a strong believer that the ability and willingness to communicate is the key to any successful relationship.

Intimacy is not an experience. It is an attitude--one that defines the quality of how two people relate to each other during the "in between" times as well as those magical hours of lovemaking. It's caressing each others heart and touching one another's soul long before their bodies ever come together. For some intimacy means two people engaged in hot and passionate sex (or a reasonable facsimile). Unfortunately, this seems to be the first image that comes to mind. But the truth is; intimacy is much less physical and has more to do with the mind, heart, and soul of those who enjoy sharing it together. In fact, the beautiful experience of physical connection between two people is really the culmination of all that is intimate between them. It includes how they relate outside of the bedroom as much as what they do inside of it. Many people including myself have made the mistake of believing that this simple concept is understood, and because it was not we have paid the price in so many ways. Do you know what it means to have a truly loving relationship? It requires intimacy. My idea of intimacy with a woman I care about means her cherishing me and me wanting & cherishing her. It's all those little kisses in between. It's going out with other couples/people and still sitting next to each other. It's coming home & finding each other first. It's cuddling up on the couch/sofa together to watch a movie or just chat about anything. Intimacy is never forgetting the interests and passions that brought you together in the first place, It's always treating each other well and never allowing the sun to go down on an argument or a disagreement. It's mutual respect and trust. It’s having the ability to agree to disagree as adults & NOT harboring the issue, It's leaning up against a fence together on a clear starry night, gazing up at the sky together, & not saying anything, and just holding each other tightly knowing that each is thinking, "In this whole great big universe, we were so blessed to have found each other. Yes its much more than what happens between the bed sheets.


I don't want to focus so much on your physical beauty
but focus on you inner beauty, there are so many things you're feeling
but all I can see is that gorgeous body what I failed to realize there's no personality in a nice ass, simply because your ass will not tell me what kind of person you are getting to know your mind, feelings, and what makes you tick means more then trying to get in between your legs. You can be sexy, but what makes you sexy? Other then your eyes, your smile & your body. finding out what turns you on through words is enough for me, one day maybe you'll let me in and show me but right now I want to focus on you.
To look into those eyes and see a part of you that can't be put into words. What's between your legs is fine but I'd rather have what is between your ears. I want every crack and crevice of our brains to feel what our words manifest, I want to us to take a journey through time where souls meet and become one, all there is, is me and you connecting through ways and on levels we never thought we could reach.
I see pass the physical because I know deep down you want more then comments on how nice your ass is, Or how sexy you are to me. I want to hear you express yourself and make me think and explore other avenues of getting into your mind,wanting us to free our souls to each other, stimulating our

Maybe a picnic in the park, lots of talking, getting to know each other