As much as I've been trying, I can't seem to top the three things I know of in a woman's heart:

1) A pair of funky new shoes
2) That really awesome purse
3) A trip to Elmwood Spa

and over the years I've discovered a couple more:

4) Things named Russ: Russell Crowe, Russell Wong, Russell Peters, Russ Courtnall or just Russ (the Scandinavian celebration of graduating)
5) The annual Ashley/Umbra sale

*sigh* Instead I'm trying hard to crack someone's top 10 list. I'm an open honest guy who's way too old for games. I'd love to find that person to share my next trip/adventure to wherever with, lazy Sunday brunch, or a quiet night on the couch with a good movie.

3 reasons I might just make it?

3) I can go to a fancy restaurant without embarrassing anyone (much). I've gone over 312 days without spilling something on myself in a public area.

2) I've been to a Depeche Mode, Erasure, The Cure and Petshop Boys concert and be in the straight section. However my taste in music is very diverse, having been a former DJ, I really do love everything, except fusion jazz (whatever that is?!?!), and country.

and the number 1 reason I might not end up single and alone for the rest of my life:

1) I don't have peanut allergies!! {badup ba da da - insert festive music here}

*Disclaimers
I figure I should give you fair warning of the following things I do regularly:

Once a week I: Play Softball(summer), Coach Volleyball(Winter), Shower (ok it's a minimum all season long!).

I don't watch much tv anymore but my favs are Scrubs, old Arrested Development, Flight of the Conchords and old Simpsons/Family Guy.

I have a collection of over 600 movies, and I may have watched a dozen or two. (I'm waiting for the right person to watch them all with)

On our date, I may end up yelling out randomly "Yeah that's right buddy, she's with me! Wooot!"

Preferably involving you.. some food.. some activity. (It's not as kinky as it sounds) I'm open here.