I am wondering if it's even possible to find what I'm looking for
here. I have many friends and many interests which keeps me busy
doing the things I enjoy, but it would be great to find that one
special person with an indefinable quality to get to know, and
appreciate, for a relationship.

I'm not so sure for me this site is
even the place for that, as it seems like everyone here already
has their minds made up about who they want, and no one can meet
these requirements. I would love to be proved wrong though!
(Feel free to go ahead and try, you might be pleasantly
surprised) I know it's important to not settle for less than what
you want, but on the other hand, there is nothing wrong with
being open minded, is there? And can't differences be
appreciated rather than scorned? Anyway, as you can tell, I
probably over think things sometimes, but this is so not what Im
all about. I usually am able to see the lighter side of things,
and am able to laugh easily and often at them. I have a great
sense of humor, (many say this but Ive learned its just not
true) which often goes over some peoples heads. Some just don't
"get" me, and never will, it's totally their loss for sure. I
can be very entertaining and playful around those who can
appreciate it.

It's more important to me, who I am with, rather
than what I am doing, and I treat people as I would expect them
to treat me. I enjoy good movies, attending live performances,
exploring NYC, travel and vacations, (I try to get away a few
times a year) good food (especially ethnic food), good
conversation, meeting new people, having new experiences, and so
much more. I am easy going, well behaved most of the time, well
read, well informed, creative, and try to keep up with what is
going on around me. If you've read this far, and are still interested, you know what to do. You never know where this can lead,
who knows, it may even get you off of this site for good, and
wouldn't it be nice to spend less time on the internet anyway?
Well, I think so, but thats just me.